Schmoopies say the darnedest things. Oh, I know you should go totally no contact with affair partners. But they don’t often get the memo. In thrall to the pick me dance, determined to win their special cheater, they often spout ridiculousness at chumps.
You know, to pray for your immortal soul, or point out your many inadequacies.
I’m sorry to say, it’s generally Other Women who do this. I think the Other Men just skulk off, happy for the no-strings attached sex, and don’t feel the need (or want to risk the danger) of goading the man they’re cuckolding. But straight women affair partners (hello Patriarchy) — they seem to need the triumphalism. At least judging by my mail and the bazillion stories on this blog.
Ever heard from an affair partner? Did they critique your parenting? Send you a brownie plate for your divorce group? A nasty text message? Today’s Friday Challenge is your chance to point and laugh at it.
Tell CN — what stupid thing did an affair partner say to you?