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This continuation of this blog is thanks to the support of Chump Nation. Every day, newly minted chumps wash up on our shores. Instead of getting being sold false hope, or blamed for not “meeting the needs” of cheaters, they get compassionate, snarky, straight talk.

We’re here to save others the pain and shorten the learning curve. As I say often, the chump condition is not permanent. It’s situational. Leave a cheater, gain a life.

Why should I send you money?

A) Chump Nation is trying to change a narrative — that infidelity is abuse. Managing a site this large is a huge time commitment and financial expense. Donations support my writing and the IT costs associated with keeping this site humming.

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