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Fairy Dust Forgiveness

December 29, 2020 by Chump Lady

Forgiveness troll

One of my most popular posts here is on the difference between real remorse and genuine imitation Naugahyde remorse. I thought we should have a post on the difference between true forgiveness and fairy dust forgiveness. I like a good forgiveness story as much as the next person. I’m a preacher’s kid. I grew up believing it […]

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: acceptance, Forgiveness, Forgiving cheater, Meh, Remorse

Meh Sightings?

August 9, 2019 by Chump Lady

Have you had a glimpse of the Promised Land? Are you Meh? “Meh” — that liberating place of acceptance — is where you no longer are consumed with cheater drama. You don’t love them. You don’t hate them. You sort of pity anyone within a five-mile radius of them, but their existence doesn’t rock yours anymore. You’re […]

Filed Under: Gain a life, Meh, No contact Tagged With: acceptance, No Contact

Dear Chump Lady, Does it really get better?

May 7, 2019 by Chump Lady

Dear Chump Lady, Does it really get better, or is that just another lie that people tell chumps to cut down on the suicide stats? My STBX was a Boy-Scout-leading, Sunday-school-teaching, neighbor-helping pillar of our community, right up until the day I walked in on him and his skank in my guest room. He lied and […]

Filed Under: Divorce, Gain a life Tagged With: acceptance, divorce, Gain a Life, Life after divorce

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