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The Humiliating Dance of ‘Pick Me’!

April 23, 2012 by Chump Lady

Ooh, pick me!

One of the most common mindfucks the cheated upon may experience after discovery of an affair, is the expectation that they will try harder to win back the cheater. This expectation either comes from the cheater directly —  “I cheated because you’re a lousy (partner, housekeeper, lay)” — and how are you going to up […]

Filed Under: Best of Cheaters Decoded, Cheaters Decoded, Pick me dance Tagged With: bargaining, competing for your marriage, humiliation

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