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UBT: ProJared’s Divorce Statement

May 13, 2019 by Chump Lady

The Universal Bullshit Translator was awakened from its slumber to several insistent tweets that it tackle some sort of ProJared bullshit. The UBT had no idea what a ProJared was, as the “Pimp my dragon mount!” segment of the economy is unfamiliar to a simple analog machine. Apparently, among the savvy sorts who fancy themselves goblins, ProJared […]

Filed Under: Gaslighting, Infidelity in the news, Telling people, universal bullshit translator Tagged With: Cheaters, ProJared, Universal Bullshit Translator

Esther Perel Can Bite Me

February 26, 2019 by Chump Lady

I first wrote this take down of Esther Perel’s bullshit in 2014. She’s only gone on to greater fame and word salad, which is striking when you consider we live in a #MeToo moment and Andrea Dworkin is being rediscovered as a prophetess. (I’d like to shamelessly point out I was ahead of this zeitgeist […]

Filed Under: Blameshifting, Esther Perel, Quacks Tagged With: Cheaters, esther perel, infidelity

Why blame the chump?

August 15, 2018 by Chump Lady

Dear Chump Lady, Why are these so called experts so rabid about blaming chumps for their part in creating a situation where they got betrayed? Can’t they just admit that cheaters are sick fucks?  Ugh. I loved my ex-husband and he knew it.  I did the whole forgiveness thing and he acted remorseful and ultra […]

Filed Under: Cheaters Decoded, Chumps Decoded, Quacks, Reconciliation Tagged With: Cheaters, chumps, RIC

Keeping Secrets

June 21, 2018 by Chump Lady

bullshit bird

To be chumped is to be conspired against. Does that sound paranoid? Over the top? Like I’ve got a tinfoil radio transmitter in my head? To change the narrative, we really need to get straight on this part, people. To be chumped is to be conspired against. Actively and with aforethought. If you’re super lucky, it’s […]

Filed Under: Children and infidelity, Telling people Tagged With: Cheaters, secrets

Dear Chump Lady, My husband got engaged

June 7, 2018 by Chump Lady

Dear Chump Lady, My husband got engaged. (This statement does not contain a typo, although even a search engine tried to get me to add “ex” to the topic prior to displaying the full results as apparently even the internet knows that this isn’t appropriate behavior). We are still married. Last night, he posted on […]

Filed Under: Ask Chump Lady, Cake Eating, Divorce, Trust that they suck Tagged With: Cheaters, Trust That They Suck

When You Need Cheater Twu Wuv to Fail

May 17, 2018 by Chump Lady

Voodoo doll

We’re all about Meh here at CN — that Promised Land of acceptance where the pain stops and you don’t really care what your cheater does any more, or with whom. That said, a lot of chumps wouldn’t mind an exit ramp to Schadenfreude. “D-Day was 6 months ago and I’m fine… I just want […]

Filed Under: Anger, Meh, Revenge, Trust that they suck Tagged With: Cheaters, Trust That They Suck

Are Cheaters Timid Forest Creatures?

May 16, 2018 by Chump Lady

After you’ve been cheated on, you’d think it’s a pretty simple decision tree — reconcile or divorce. Choose divorce, it doesn’t matter if your cheater is sorry or not sorry, the infidelity is a deal breaker. If you choose reconciliation, however, the matter of How Sorry Are They comes to the forefront of the decision. […]

Filed Under: Early days after discovery, Limbo, Reconciliation Tagged With: Cheaters, reconciliation

Dear Chump Lady, Why is he copying me?

May 15, 2018 by Chump Lady

Dear Chump Lady, My ex cheated on me relentlessly, with a mind-boggling amount of women. We had four D-days before I had the strength to get the hell out of there, so yes, I’m a super chump. It’s been a couple of years, but he still reaches out and seems clueless as to why I […]

Filed Under: Ask Chump Lady, Character disorder, Kinds of cheaters, No contact, Trust that they suck Tagged With: Cheaters, Copycat

Dear Josh

May 3, 2018 by Chump Lady

other woman

Dear Josh of Somewhere in the Mid-Atlantic, You don’t know me. I run an infidelity blog. I happened to have dinner the other evening seated next to your cheating wife. She was with this really douchey guy about 15 years older than she is (late 40s, early 50s). The kind of guy who flips his […]

Filed Under: Deception, Other Man, Other Women Tagged With: Cheaters

When the Pick Me Dance Turns Deadly

April 26, 2018 by Chump Lady

I read the news of a murder/suicide in Philly this week with a sad horror. Jennair Gerardot, 47,  confronted the woman who was having an affair with her husband, Meredith Chapman, 33, and shot her. Then she turned the gun on herself. Two women dead and the cake-eating bastard who enjoyed the competition of two […]

Filed Under: Infidelity in the news Tagged With: Cheaters, Pick Me Dance

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