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Dear Chump Lady, My therapist says don’t tell anyone he cheated

August 6, 2019 by Chump Lady

Dear Chump Lady, Do you think chumps should tell their family and friends that the reason they are separated from their spouse is because he/she cheated? My marriage counselor (MC)’s advice was that the reason for the separation was not anyone else’s business and said that by telling the truth (i.e. their spouse cheated) the betrayed […]

Filed Under: False reconciliation, Limbo, Telling people Tagged With: Cheating, Disclosure, playing the victim, secrets, Victim shaming

When Men Are Cheated On

July 22, 2019 by Chump Lady

If Google analytics are to be believed (and they know everything right?) about half of the people who read here are men. Where are they? Mostly lurking. (Assuming they aren’t your stalking ex. Google doesn’t have a break down for that. Yet.) With 26 million-plus page views and nearly 5 million unique visitors — that’s […]

Filed Under: Chumps Decoded Tagged With: Cheating, Cuck, Guy Chumps, infidelity

All Those Times You Didn’t Cheat

May 17, 2019 by Chump Lady

If you believe the popular commentators on infidelity, unfaithfulness is an affliction that can happen to anyone anywhere anytime. All of our relationships are under the constant assault of sparkly new acquaintances and old Facebook crushes. And the only bulwark against the novel pussy/dick menace is a $399 “affair-proof” your marriage webinar. Affairs, we’re told, […]

Filed Under: Other Man, Other Women Tagged With: Cheating, Missed opportunity

Dear Chump Lady, Do cheaters blameshift?

May 14, 2018 by Chump Lady

Dear Chump Lady, I was wondering if this is a common saying that chumps hear on D-day. Upon discovering my husband’ s texts to another person, he quickly said, “I’m done!” I answered with, “You’re done? I’m the one that’s done!” Here’s the kicker — he then says, “You’re doing exactly what she wants you […]

Filed Under: Ask Chump Lady, Blameshifting, Pick me dance Tagged With: Blameshifting, Cheating, Pick Me Dance

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