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Infidelity, Divorce, Kids — How Did You Navigate It?

May 22, 2020 by Chump Lady

Hi Chump Lady, I wish I would have found your site a decade ago.. alas spilled milk… I’m in a 19 year marriage to a selfish/self centered woman who I chumpily still love. 13 years ago she found an affair partner online that I found out about. We went to counseling and “reconciled”… Since then […]

Filed Under: Children and infidelity, Divorce Tagged With: Children and infidelity

Let’s blame the children?

September 17, 2018 by Chump Lady

An alert chump sent this article in Today’s Parent: “What happens after the affair—when you have kids?” Apparently, children are hindering Otherwise Good People from their journeys of epic self-discovery. What with their teething and their sticky fingers and inconvenient vulnerability, mommy and daddy can’t get any sleep, no I mean strange. What are you […]

Filed Under: Blameshifting, Children and infidelity Tagged With: Blameshifting, Children and infidelity, esther perel

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