Tag: Closure
Closure and Other Myths
It must be part of the part of the human condition to want closure. Either that or we’ve all watched too much Law & Order. …
He’s Back After ‘Ending It’ with OW
Dear Chump Lady, I just heard from my mother that my soon-to-be-ex reached out to her pleading after I had made it clear I was …
Ex Wants Chump to Go to Therapy with Her
Dear Chump Lady, My ex-wife (20-year marriage) went to my therapist. (Chump that I am, I recommended that the cheating ex-wife use my therapist to save …
UBT: “I Would Like to Have a Final Conversation”
Dear Chump Lady, I am finally filing for divorce (with a 6 month processing time COVID wooo). I want some insight into my ex-spouse’s requests. …
Breaking No Contact: How’d That Go?
The fastest path to healing after being chumped is no contact. We say that here a lot, and yet, when you’re in the early stages …
When Closure Is Eaten by Bears
Need a present for that hard-to-buy for chump in your life? Consider doomed salmon. Oregon-based Wildlife Images Rehabilitation & Education Center had a campaign to name …
You Don’t Need Closure
Once upon a time, a fellow “Chump Chap” wrote to me after he realized that he’d gotten a non-apology apology from his cheating ex. He’d …
Dear Chump Lady, I want closure
Dear Chump Lady, Leaving my cheater has been a real struggle for me. I started going to a trauma therapist to get some help with …
Dear Chump Lady, I just want to watch it burn
Dear Chump Lady, My friend directed me to you Chump Lady, I have been humming and hawing about wanting to message you but I decided …
“Closure,” Don’t Do It.
“Closure” is just another word for hopium. Put down the crack pipe, chumps. Don’t confuse closure with acceptance. We’re all about the meh here. Acceptance …
