Tag: Fix your picker

How Not to Be a Chump When Dating

Dear Chump Lady, I fear I will always be a chump. Text today to and from girlfriend about her co-worker: JAD: I’m sorry you have …

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Is She Really Just a Close Friend?

Dear Chump Lady, My fiancee has a (married) BFF who is an ex-lover. They used to hook up whenever they were single. Early in our …

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‘I Didn’t See Any Red Flags’

Hello Chump Lady, My D-day was almost 3 months ago. It wasn’t a marriage but a 10-year relationship, since teen years. I am 27, she …

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How Do I Ward Off Emotional Vampires?

Dear Chump Lady, I left my ex-fiancé a few years ago just as our daughter was born (standard cheater asshole) and amidst him marrying and …

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Are These Red Flags?

Dear Chump Lady, My question is to see if I’m about to get involved with a user and would be interested in what your experienced …

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A ‘Fix Your Picker’ Refresher

Is this not your first time at the chump rodeo? Are you afraid you’ll wind up shackled to another person of dubious character? While I’ve …

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Does Social Media Encourage Cheating?

Dear Chump Lady, First and foremost, thank you for writing Leave A Cheater, Gain a Life! It was immensely helpful, but I still can’t seem …

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‘How Come All My Boyfriends Suck?’

Dear Chump Lady, I was married to my husband for six years. When our youngest was six months old I caught him cheating with his …

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Fix Your Picker Tips

Hey, it’s Friday and maybe you have a date this weekend. Or a bad rash just thinking about dating. Or maybe there’s still a cheater …

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Feeling Too Available

Dear Chump Lady, I wish there were a few more posts about how to go about dating again. My recent experience was with a man …

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Dear Chump Lady, Complicated love rhombus…

Dear Chump Lady, I had a partner of 12 years, Kathy. We had a house, two dogs, joint checking account, and we did grow complacent …

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