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When You Discover Your Boyfriend Has a Married Girlfriend

December 21, 2020 by Chump Lady

cheater overlap

Dear Chump Lady, Last week, I left my boyfriend of 11 months. I recently discovered that before meeting with me, he had been in a relationship with a woman who had two kids and a husband for a year and a half. He lied about her for 11 months (the entire length of our relationship, […]

Filed Under: Hopium, No contact, Pick me dance, Trust that they suck Tagged With: Hoovering, No Contact, Pick Me Dance

Coronavirus Hoovering?

April 16, 2020 by Chump Lady

Hi Chump Lady, Do you think that toxic relationships can be re-started — years later after both of you have had other partners and lived separate lives? So many of my exes are reaching out to me during this COVID time… I find it fascinating and traumatizing. What are your thoughts? Too Many Bad Options […]

Filed Under: Ego kibbles, Trust that they suck Tagged With: Hoovering, Trust That They Suck

‘He sent me a poem on Christmas’

December 31, 2018 by Chump Lady

Dear Chump Lady, I got this poem from my ex on Christmas Day. What does it mean? What is the point? “I just wanted to wish you Merry ChristmasYou were the best.I should never expecting anything lest.I’m sorry I was just a nuisance and a pest.I just wanted to drop you this rhyme.To let you […]

Filed Under: Trust that they suck Tagged With: Genuine Imitation Naugahyde Remorse, Hoovering, Trust That They Suck

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