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‘We Had a Good Life. Why Did He Cheat?’

November 26, 2019 by Chump Lady

Serial cheater

Dear Chump Lady, I come to you as perplexed and heartbroken. When you think about how many people experience this kind of betrayal, it is really a sad thing. I had been with my soon-to-be ex-husband for almost six years. Despite his two children from his first marriage, (and another child he found out about […]

Filed Under: Early days after discovery, How to leave a cheater, Untangling the skein of fuckupedness Tagged With: Double life, How to leave a cheater, Untangling the Skein, Why happy people cheat 122 Comments

When You Want to Leave, But Just Had a Baby

November 19, 2019 by Chump Lady

Dear Chump Lady, I have been married for almost 3 years and we have a one-year old. I discovered he was cheating with random strangers when we were engaged, and, in true Chump style, I paid for us to have expensive couples’ counselling. I chose to believe the arrogant psychologist who told me that he […]

Filed Under: How to leave a cheater, Limbo Tagged With: How to leave a cheater

Dear Chump Lady, She left me for her boss

October 24, 2019 by Chump Lady

Ooh, pick me!

Hello Chump Lady I am really struggling to cope with the end of my marriage because my partner has been unfaithful. My wife and I are gay. We have been together for 9 years and got married 6 years ago. My wife was really in love with me, and over the years would say I […]

Filed Under: Early days after discovery, Pick me dance Tagged With: How to leave a cheater

Dear Chump Lady, I can’t kick hope

October 16, 2019 by Chump Lady

Dear Chump Lady, First I want to say I am so glad I found your site, it is beginning to counteract the damage all the “save your marriage” sites have caused me. Thanks for exposing me to harsh realities. I wish I would have found this site in the beginning. I am still in the […]

Filed Under: Cake Eating, Hopium, How to leave a cheater, Trust that they suck Tagged With: Hopium, How to leave a cheater

How to Leave a Cheater — Your Care Team

October 3, 2019 by Chump Lady

Last week I got a letter from a physician, Kimberly, who told me part of her medical practice is dealing with the newly chumped. We all know the D-Day experience — the shock, the weight loss, the sleeplessness. Since I’ve done this blog, however, I’d never heard from the medical side of things.  Kimberly, former […]

Filed Under: Early days after discovery, How to leave a cheater Tagged With: Care Plan, D-Day, How to leave a cheater

Dear Chump Lady, I’m angry with myself for not leaving sooner

August 29, 2019 by Chump Lady

Dear Chump Lady. I recently read your book, and it’s helped me a lot to not contact my ex-boyfriend (which had previously been very difficult), and to fully acknowledge his bullshit answers on evidence that never made sense. I first (yes, first…) discovered his cheating about three years ago. It came with the baggage of […]

Filed Under: Blameshifting, Chumps Decoded, No contact Tagged With: How to leave a cheater, Regrets

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