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She ‘Can’t Decide’ Between Us

December 9, 2020 by Chump Lady

Dear Chump Lady, We’ve been married since 2012. Bought new home in 2014. In 2015 she acted so so happy. Turns out she was screwing a guy in Motel 6. She told me they just needed a private place to talk. Until this guy. Five years older than my son (I’m 49. My son’s 26). […]

Filed Under: Pick me dance Tagged With: How to leave a cheater, Pick Me Dance

‘I Feel Trapped’

November 25, 2020 by Chump Lady

Dear Chump Lady, I need to vent. I have no one to talk to and I feel trapped. I can’t talk to friends or family because he’s a decent father but not so much as a husband. So…about 7 years ago I found out my husband went to those “happy ending” massage places for about […]

Filed Under: How to leave a cheater Tagged With: How to leave a cheater, SAHM

5 Things That Keep You Stuck with a Cheater

October 16, 2020 by Chump Lady

Are you on the fence about leaving a cheater? Is this not their first rodeo? Here are some common traps that keep you stuck with a cheater and prevent you from moving on. 1. Hope. Codependency has been described as the addiction to the POTENTIAL of things. Are you hooked on a cheater’s potential? Wow, […]

Filed Under: Hopium, How to leave a cheater Tagged With: How to leave a cheater

How Do You Leave a Cheater?

September 10, 2020 by Chump Lady

Dear Chump Lady, When you discover cheating, how do you break the news? I’m a strong person. I help domestic violence victims, I have an answer for everything. I don’t know left from right today. Today I’m rereading emails my other half sent to a woman he believed was a Craigslist honey wanting to get […]

Filed Under: Early days after discovery, How to leave a cheater Tagged With: How to leave a cheater

‘I Want to Blast Them on Facebook’

May 26, 2020 by Chump Lady

Dear Chump Lady, I just found out after 5 or 6 years of absolute insane digging (mental breakdowns, trips to rehabs, gaslighting to the extreme, abuse that would cause anyone to want to kill themselves) that my dear darling husband’s side piece is no other than my fucking NEIGHBOR!!!!! I was on here about a […]

Filed Under: Early days after discovery, How to leave a cheater, Revenge, Telling people Tagged With: Facebook, How to leave a cheater, Other Woman, Outing cheaters

How Did You Line Up Your Ducks?

February 21, 2020 by Chump Lady

Dear Chump Lady, I have written before and asked for anonymity due to domestic violence, despite my ex being out of my house 3.5 years and fear his retribution. I wish to remain ‘behind the scenes’ as a quiet champion of your site and the amazing work you do. This site has literally saved my […]

Filed Under: How to leave a cheater Tagged With: How to leave a cheater

‘We Had a Good Life. Why Did He Cheat?’

November 26, 2019 by Chump Lady

Serial cheater

Dear Chump Lady, I come to you as perplexed and heartbroken. When you think about how many people experience this kind of betrayal, it is really a sad thing. I had been with my soon-to-be ex-husband for almost six years. Despite his two children from his first marriage, (and another child he found out about […]

Filed Under: Early days after discovery, How to leave a cheater, Untangling the skein of fuckupedness Tagged With: Double life, How to leave a cheater, Untangling the Skein, Why happy people cheat

When You Want to Leave, But Just Had a Baby

November 19, 2019 by Chump Lady

Dear Chump Lady, I have been married for almost 3 years and we have a one-year old. I discovered he was cheating with random strangers when we were engaged, and, in true Chump style, I paid for us to have expensive couples’ counselling. I chose to believe the arrogant psychologist who told me that he […]

Filed Under: How to leave a cheater, Limbo Tagged With: How to leave a cheater

Dear Chump Lady, She left me for her boss

October 24, 2019 by Chump Lady

Ooh, pick me!

Hello Chump Lady I am really struggling to cope with the end of my marriage because my partner has been unfaithful. My wife and I are gay. We have been together for 9 years and got married 6 years ago. My wife was really in love with me, and over the years would say I […]

Filed Under: Early days after discovery, Pick me dance Tagged With: How to leave a cheater

Dear Chump Lady, I can’t kick hope

October 16, 2019 by Chump Lady

Hopium

Dear Chump Lady, First I want to say I am so glad I found your site, it is beginning to counteract the damage all the “save your marriage” sites have caused me. Thanks for exposing me to harsh realities. I wish I would have found this site in the beginning. I am still in the […]

Filed Under: Cake Eating, Hopium, How to leave a cheater, Trust that they suck Tagged With: Hopium, How to leave a cheater

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