Tag: How to leave a cheater

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What If I Leave and He Really Loves Me?

Dear Chump Lady, I am unofficially in purgatory. I have been 22 months in wreckonciliation with my cheating husband who cheated with an ex coworker …

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‘I Left Him on the Side of the Road’

Dear Chump Lady, My 4.5 year journey to divorce my ex finished in a German court at 9:41 on October 11th. It felt like my …

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‘I’ve Never Broken Up with Anyone’

Dear Chump Lady, I’m closing in on a year from D-Day. I feel like my mental and emotional well-being have largely recovered and I’m ready …

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She ‘Can’t Decide’ Between Us

Dear Chump Lady, We’ve been married since 2012. Bought new home in 2014. In 2015 she acted so so happy. Turns out she was screwing …

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‘I Feel Trapped’

Dear Chump Lady, I need to vent. I have no one to talk to and I feel trapped. I can’t talk to friends or family …

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5 Things That Keep You Stuck with a Cheater

Are you on the fence about leaving a cheater? Is this not their first rodeo? Here are some common traps that keep you stuck with …

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How Do You Leave a Cheater?

Dear Chump Lady, When you discover cheating, how do you break the news? I’m a strong person. I help domestic violence victims, I have an …

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‘I Want to Blast Them on Facebook’

Dear Chump Lady, I just found out after 5 or 6 years of absolute insane digging (mental breakdowns, trips to rehabs, gaslighting to the extreme, …

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How Did You Line Up Your Ducks?

Dear Chump Lady, I have written before and asked for anonymity due to domestic violence, despite my ex being out of my house 3.5 years …

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‘We Had a Good Life. Why Did He Cheat?’

Dear Chump Lady, I come to you as perplexed and heartbroken. When you think about how many people experience this kind of betrayal, it is …

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When You Want to Leave, But Just Had a Baby

Dear Chump Lady, I have been married for almost 3 years and we have a one-year old. I discovered he was cheating with random strangers …

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Dear Chump Lady, She left me for her boss

Hello Chump Lady I am really struggling to cope with the end of my marriage because my partner has been unfaithful. My wife and I …

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Dear Chump Lady, I can’t kick hope

Dear Chump Lady, First I want to say I am so glad I found your site, it is beginning to counteract the damage all the …

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How to Leave a Cheater — Your Care Team

Last week I got a letter from a physician, Kimberly, who told me part of her medical practice is dealing with the newly chumped. We …

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Dear Chump Lady, I’m angry with myself for not leaving sooner

Dear Chump Lady. I recently read your book, and it’s helped me a lot to not contact my ex-boyfriend (which had previously been very difficult), …

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