Dear Chump Lady, I am unofficially in purgatory. I have been 22 months in wreckonciliation with my cheating husband who cheated with an ex coworker …
Dear Chump Lady, My 4.5 year journey to divorce my ex finished in a German court at 9:41 on October 11th. It felt like my …
Dear Chump Lady, I’m closing in on a year from D-Day. I feel like my mental and emotional well-being have largely recovered and I’m ready …
Dear Chump Lady, We’ve been married since 2012. Bought new home in 2014. In 2015 she acted so so happy. Turns out she was screwing …
Dear Chump Lady, I need to vent. I have no one to talk to and I feel trapped. I can’t talk to friends or family …
Are you on the fence about leaving a cheater? Is this not their first rodeo? Here are some common traps that keep you stuck with …
Dear Chump Lady, When you discover cheating, how do you break the news? I’m a strong person. I help domestic violence victims, I have an …
Dear Chump Lady, I just found out after 5 or 6 years of absolute insane digging (mental breakdowns, trips to rehabs, gaslighting to the extreme, …
Dear Chump Lady, I have written before and asked for anonymity due to domestic violence, despite my ex being out of my house 3.5 years …
Dear Chump Lady, I come to you as perplexed and heartbroken. When you think about how many people experience this kind of betrayal, it is …
Dear Chump Lady, I have been married for almost 3 years and we have a one-year old. I discovered he was cheating with random strangers …
Hello Chump Lady I am really struggling to cope with the end of my marriage because my partner has been unfaithful. My wife and I …
Dear Chump Lady, First I want to say I am so glad I found your site, it is beginning to counteract the damage all the …
Last week I got a letter from a physician, Kimberly, who told me part of her medical practice is dealing with the newly chumped. We …
Dear Chump Lady. I recently read your book, and it’s helped me a lot to not contact my ex-boyfriend (which had previously been very difficult), …