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The Kid Calls the Felon OW ‘Mama’

July 8, 2020 by Chump Lady

Dear Chump Lady, I am divorced from a shitbag who decided to have an affair with a married coworker. Yes, I know, I should have seen it coming. Not to mention I am positive I held some of his red flags for him while watching them wave in the wind. He probably needed both hands […]

Filed Under: co-parenting with a fuckwit Tagged With: co-parenting, identity theft, impression management

Nice versus Kind

January 22, 2020 by Chump Lady

There was an interesting side discussion the other day on Chump Lady about the difference between niceness and kindness. Many people noted that their cheaters appeared to much of the world as “nice people,” but in point of fact, lacked kindness. (Sure, it’s an understatement to say that cheating is unkind.) Now, I don’t want […]

Filed Under: Reconciliation Tagged With: impression management, Kindness, Nice

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