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A Gain a Life Update… and Some Schmoopie Karma

December 2, 2020 by Chump Lady

You might recall a UBT from last May, when the OW sent our chump a Mother’s Day card, admonishing her to be best. Civility is for the children! That was a chuckle. Well, the other day on Facebook, our intrepid chump, Debbie, posted an update to her story, and tagged me. With Debbie’s permission, I’m […]

Filed Under: Gain a life Tagged With: Gain a Life, karma

Any Karma Stories?

October 2, 2020 by Chump Lady

Dear Chump Lady, I know you say not to wait for the karma bus and I understand why you say that. But…..for a sister Chump who is having a real setback, could I ask you and CN to share some karma stories? I’m phoning a friend. Trying to be, Hopeful Dear Hopeful, As good chumpy […]

Filed Under: Trust that they suck Tagged With: karma

When You Need Cheater Twu Wuv to Fail

May 12, 2020 by Chump Lady

Voodoo doll

We’re all about Meh here at CN — that Promised Land of acceptance where the pain stops and you don’t really care what your cheater does any more, or with whom. That said, a lot of chumps wouldn’t mind an exit ramp to Schadenfreude. “D-Day was 6 months ago and I’m fine… I just want […]

Filed Under: Trust that they suck, Untangling the skein of fuckupedness Tagged With: karma

Where Are They Now?

August 16, 2019 by Chump Lady

“Don’t wait for karma,” I tell people on this blog all the time. Get on with your life! Go be awesome! Embrace meh! Assuming you even believe in cosmic comeuppances, you shouldn’t wait for them. Who knows the ways of the karmic scheduler? (I suspect he’s often asleep at the wheel.) But sometimes… just sometimes… […]

Filed Under: Other Women, Trust that they suck Tagged With: karma, Rielle Hunter

‘I Found the OW’s Goodbye Letter in My Safe’

October 24, 2018 by Chump Lady

Dear Chump Lady, I run a business with my soon-to-be-ex husband who’s been having an affair with one of our employees. I found this letter in our company safe last week.  You want something for the UBT? Dear Charlie (Limp Dick) I am so sorry to hurt you. I think this will be painful for […]

Filed Under: Trust that they suck Tagged With: karma

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