Supéralo. Es la palabra que más odiamos las ingenuas. “Supéralo” te dice ese traidor infiel sin remordimiento. Eso, después de su intento de reconciliación totalmente mediocre. “Supéralo” te dice tu amiga, la que no puede concebir tu dolor y prefiere que sigas siendo la ignorante, inocente amiga de siempre. “Supéralo” te dice tu jefe, porque […]
A Gain a Life Update… and Some Schmoopie Karma
You might recall a UBT from last May, when the OW sent our chump a Mother’s Day card, admonishing her to be best. Civility is for the children! That was a chuckle. Well, the other day on Facebook, our intrepid chump, Debbie, posted an update to her story, and tagged me. With Debbie’s permission, I’m […]
Any Karma Stories?
Dear Chump Lady, I know you say not to wait for the karma bus and I understand why you say that. But…..for a sister Chump who is having a real setback, could I ask you and CN to share some karma stories? I’m phoning a friend. Trying to be, Hopeful Dear Hopeful, As good chumpy […]
When You Need Cheater Twu Wuv to Fail
We’re all about Meh here at CN — that Promised Land of acceptance where the pain stops and you don’t really care what your cheater does any more, or with whom. That said, a lot of chumps wouldn’t mind an exit ramp to Schadenfreude. “D-Day was 6 months ago and I’m fine… I just want […]
Where Are They Now?
“Don’t wait for karma,” I tell people on this blog all the time. Get on with your life! Go be awesome! Embrace meh! Assuming you even believe in cosmic comeuppances, you shouldn’t wait for them. Who knows the ways of the karmic scheduler? (I suspect he’s often asleep at the wheel.) But sometimes… just sometimes… […]
‘I Found the OW’s Goodbye Letter in My Safe’
Dear Chump Lady, I run a business with my soon-to-be-ex husband who’s been having an affair with one of our employees. I found this letter in our company safe last week. You want something for the UBT? Dear Charlie (Limp Dick) I am so sorry to hurt you. I think this will be painful for […]
