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Nice versus Kind

January 22, 2020 by Chump Lady

There was an interesting side discussion the other day on Chump Lady about the difference between niceness and kindness. Many people noted that their cheaters appeared to much of the world as “nice people,” but in point of fact, lacked kindness. (Sure, it’s an understatement to say that cheating is unkind.) Now, I don’t want […]

Filed Under: Reconciliation Tagged With: impression management, Kindness, Nice

The Kindness of Strangers

August 23, 2019 by Chump Lady

I feel like I need a corrective to yesterday’s column, “If It Feels Good — Don’t Do It.” Fact is, most of us get emotionally sloppy after D-Day. (Except for those of us, like me, born emotionally sloppy.) The advice to not let them see your hurt — vindictive freaks will use that in court, […]

Filed Under: Better on the other side Tagged With: Kindness

Nice vs. Kind

August 7, 2018 by Chump Lady

There was an interesting side discussion the other day on Chump Lady about the difference between niceness and kindness. Many people noted that their cheaters appeared to much of the world as “nice people,” but in point of fact, lacked kindness. (Sure, it’s an understatement to say that cheating is unkind.) Now, I don’t want […]

Filed Under: Cheaters Decoded, Chumps Decoded Tagged With: Kindness

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