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Chump Lady Slouches Toward Another Year

September 25, 2019 by Chump Lady

Today is my birthday and every year I rerun the first birthday column I wrote in 2012. It’s a meditation on craptacular chumpy birthdays, and what a difference a new life — and a new partner — makes. (Not that you can’t have the new life without a new partner. This always bears repeating.) Fair […]

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How Do I Gain a Life Before the Divorce Is Final?

September 12, 2019 by Chump Lady

Hi Chump Lady, I’d love yours and the input of CN on the transition between Leaving the Cheater and Gaining the Life. I feel I’m in transit, like I boarded the plane to Meh on Monday, and I’m about to touch down into Tuesday with a few bags and a little bit of hope. It’s […]

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Dear Chump Lady, Does it really get better?

May 7, 2019 by Chump Lady

Dear Chump Lady, Does it really get better, or is that just another lie that people tell chumps to cut down on the suicide stats? My STBX was a Boy-Scout-leading, Sunday-school-teaching, neighbor-helping pillar of our community, right up until the day I walked in on him and his skank in my guest room. He lied and […]

Filed Under: Divorce, Gain a life Tagged With: acceptance, divorce, Gain a Life, Life after divorce

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