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Why Gaslighting Works

October 31, 2019 by Chump Lady

gaslighting

As mindfuckery goes, it doesn’t seem like gaslighting should work. It isn’t concealing the truth (lying) — it’s denying a reality you have actual evidence of. Gaslighter Jim: Nice dog you have there. Bob: That’s a pygmy goat. Gaslighter Jim: What breed is it? Labrador? Newfie? Bob: PYG-MY! Goat! Gaslighter Jim: I don’t know why […]

Filed Under: Gaslighting Tagged With: Gaslighting, Mindfuckery

Dear Chump Lady, He says I’m ‘selfish’ for leaving him

June 19, 2019 by Chump Lady

bitch cookie

Hello, My story is pretty much the same as everyone else’s with a small twist. Married for 12 years. He said he wanted another child in October 2017. I wasn’t so sure, because I had been doing 99% of the child rearing alone. Eventually, I thought to myself that I was being selfish since I […]

Filed Under: Blameshifting, Children and infidelity, Pick me dance Tagged With: Limbo, Mindfuckery

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