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Is Monogamy Abuse?

October 12, 2020 by Chump Lady

monkey love

Dear Chump Lady The thing that I wanted to talk to you about has nothing to do with cheating, but everything to do with monogamy. Right now in mainstream media monogamy is being called outdated and regressive. If you want monogamous relationship you are deemed insecure, controlling, unloving and on… Is monogamy abuse? Do you […]

Filed Under: Monogamy, Polyamory Tagged With: monogamy, polyamory

UBT: “How to break free from monogamy without destroying marriage”

October 14, 2019 by Chump Lady

The Universal Bullshit Translator is weary. So many stupid articles, so little time… The gears crank for the Washington Post’s “How to break free from monogamy without destroying marriage.” (Sigh) Isn’t this what every cake-eating cheater tells themselves? I’ll keep all the niceties of marriage — the combined 401K, the way you buy my mother-in-law […]

Filed Under: Monogamy, Pick me dance Tagged With: monogamy, non-monogamy, polyamory

Rethinking the Psychologists Rethinking Monogamy

May 6, 2019 by Chump Lady

shrink

An alert chump sent me this tidbit in his Apple News feed: “Psychologists Agree: It May Be Time to Rethink Your Monogamous Relationship Research makes it clear that our best intentions are often worthless in the face of a compelling, and possibly unexpected, attraction to another person. The question arises then: Is it time to […]

Filed Under: Gaslighting, Monogamy, Quacks Tagged With: monogamy, Rethinking Monogamy, Sea shanties

Dear Chump Lady, Ethical non-monogamy was a bust

July 18, 2018 by Chump Lady

broken heart

Dear Chump Lady, I was in a relationship for 15 years, married for the last five. I’m not wired to be jealous over sex — I like it when pretty people do things to each other. Sensing he wanted to wander, though, I’d negotiated three rules: he could do whatever as long as it was […]

Filed Under: How to leave a cheater, Monogamy Tagged With: cake eating, Ethical non monogamy, monogamy

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