Tag: Narcissist

Left Her with 4-Month Child So He Could Be ‘Happier’

Hi Chump Lady, On my last first birthday without soon-to-be-ex husband, I am all filled with emotions. My husband and OW had an affair while …

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Ben Taylor

UBT: Narcissist Cheater Life Coach

Here’s a curious business plan: be a serial cheater, embrace your narcissism, and monetize that shit as a life coach. Ooh, where do I sign …

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mindfuck

Does Social Media Encourage Cheating?

Dear Chump Lady, First and foremost, thank you for writing Leave A Cheater, Gain a Life! It was immensely helpful, but I still can’t seem …

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planet narcissist

Wife Wants to ‘Renegotiate’ the Relationship

Dear Chump Lady, Without going into too much detail with our past, my wife and I are at a bit of a crossroads with our …

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planet narcissist

UBT: Cheating on My Husband Made Me a Better Mother

Who’s ready for another personal testimonial to the wonders of cheating? It brightens! It whitens! It dices! It slices! And it’s good for stubborn stains. …

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ego kibbles

UBT: I Was Too Much Into My Own Lies

Hey Chump Lady, I finally heard from my ex-wife after almost a year. Quick recap — she admitted to having affairs in our marriage and …

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How Cheap Is Your Cheater?

Once upon a time, GladIt’sOver’s ex presented her, apropos of nothing, with a half-eaten box of Wheatena cereal. As a “gift.” She told the story …

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planet narcissist

Dear Chump Lady, Is she a cheater or a muse?

Dear Chump Lady, I am am 51 year old male who has been married to his wife for 27 years. There have been four distinct …

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Serial cheater

How Do You Divorce a Narcissist?

Dear Chump Lady, Although he fits the readings, although the therapists tell you he is a narcissist, you don’t quite believe it. It isn’t quite …

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Narcissist Goldfish

When Your D-Day Is After the Divorce

Dear Chump Lady, How do I get over the Beauty and Beast fiction? Briefly: married my brother’s friend at 25, 2 girls and 20 years …

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Serial cheater

Dear Chump Lady, I don’t think he’s a narcissist

Dear Chump Lady, I’m a chump who discovered my husband’s year-long affair that took place nine years ago while dealing with the fallout of me …

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Got Jesus Cheaters?

Yesterday’s column, “Don’t Date This Person,” had a glaring omission — Jesus cheaters. Bible belt? This Friday challenge is for you. You get to tell CN about …

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planet narcissist

UBT: “I Found Myself and Had an Affair”

An alert chump sent me this letter to “Meredith” an advice columnist, that ran in the Boston Globe’s Love Letters. In it, a cheater laments …

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Narcissist Goldfish

New Narc Strategy? Be Boring

Dear Chump Lady, I’m writing to ask if you could write a post about how and whether gray rock differs from no contact. Thanks to …

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bullshit bird

UBT: I cheated because you’re stale

Dear Chump Lady, I’m about 6 months out from D-Day, and a few weeks short of when I found out my now ex-wife was having …

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