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Everyone Thinks He’s ‘Nice’

February 4, 2021 by Chump Lady

Dear Chump Lady, I am new to your site and am currently reading your book. Every-time I waver I re-read a section of your book to give me the strength and power to move forward. My husband of 30 years, together 35, met him at 18, three grown children (20, 24, 26) had a long-term […]

Filed Under: Switzerland Friends Tagged With: Nice, Switzerland Friends

Nice versus Kind

January 22, 2020 by Chump Lady

There was an interesting side discussion the other day on Chump Lady about the difference between niceness and kindness. Many people noted that their cheaters appeared to much of the world as “nice people,” but in point of fact, lacked kindness. (Sure, it’s an understatement to say that cheating is unkind.) Now, I don’t want […]

Filed Under: Reconciliation Tagged With: impression management, Kindness, Nice

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