Tag: No Contact
UBT: ‘You Made Me Leave You’
Hi Chump Lady, Thank you for being there as a light post through this journey. My question is more of a request for some classic …
Angry Feelings Still That She ‘Got Away with It’
Hey Chump Lady, Thank you so much for your site. Once I found it and discovered that I had my own agency and that my …
How Do I Stop Feeling Guilty?
Dear Chump Lady, I kicked my husband out of the house 2 years ago, finally, after a (at least) 10-year history of him cheating on …
Signposts to Meh?
Friday Challenge by popular demand — how did you know you were getting to Meh? Were there signposts along the way? A certain point where …
Is Breaking Up 4 Years After D-Day ‘Overreacting’?
Dear Chump Lady, I recently discovered your book and am about half way through it… D-Day was 4 years ago and I went through everything …
I Unfriended Him
Dear Chump Lady, I unfriended and unfollowed my cheating husband on Facebook and Instagram. Apparently, he just found out and sent me this text, “You …
Rocking the No Contact
Incoming bullshit? Repel! Today’s Fun Friday Challenge is to tell CN how that no contact’s going. In yesterday’s post, Dr. Chumphead commented: You know, since …
Why Can’t I Get Them Out of My Head?
Dear Chump Lady, I need your take on what is still happening to me nearly eight years after D-day. I went no contact almost immediately. …
Years Later and No ‘Meh’
Dear Chump Lady, I was married 20 years. It was around year 18 that my ex started the implosion, blaming me for his unhappiness for …
Is He a Unicorn or a Narcissist?
He left her for the OW. Now he’s back on weekends. Planting a garden. Buying her gifts. Having sex. Is this… reconciliation? Chump Lady wields the clue bat.
No Contact Fails — The Blooper Reel
This “Fun” Friday contest was suggested by an intrepid chump — no contact fails, the outtakes. If your chumpy existence was a Bloopers show — what …
He’s Having a Baby with the OW
Dear Chump Lady, It’s me, again. Doubly Chumped. I wrote to you back in January about being duped by two FWs in my life — …
No Contact, Gray Rock, and Other Kinds of Mighty
Rocking the gray rock? Today’s Friday Challenge is to share how you’ve mastered the art of low contact. In a perfect world, you could have …
Struggling with No Contact
Dear Chump Lady, Holy crap, Chump Lady, I feel like hell today. This No Contact is killing me. I woke up with a sense of …
UBT: “I Made a List”
Dear Chump Lady: After my divorce from an abusive man, I didn’t date seriously until 4 years later when I met the SparkleD*ck. He was …
When You Discover Your Boyfriend Has a Married Girlfriend
Dear Chump Lady, Last week, I left my boyfriend of 11 months. I recently discovered that before meeting with me, he had been in a …
Ex-Wife Wants Old VHS Tapes for Christmas
Dear Chump Lady, I have been divorced for 4 years now after going through an ugly divorce complete with 2 years of doing the pick …
UBT: “I Would Like to Have a Final Conversation”
Dear Chump Lady, I am finally filing for divorce (with a 6 month processing time COVID wooo). I want some insight into my ex-spouse’s requests. …
Where’s My Justice?
Dear Chump Lady, Six months on from D-Day and I’m pissed. Where is my meh? Where is my happiness after the pain and trauma from …
Breaking No Contact: How’d That Go?
The fastest path to healing after being chumped is no contact. We say that here a lot, and yet, when you’re in the early stages …
