Tag: Other Woman
I’m the Other Woman and I’m Terrified He’ll Cheat on Me
I’m on the road today, so I am rerunning a CN favorite, where an OW wrote to me expecting chump compassion…. and it didn’t end …
Should I Tell the Other Chump?
Dear Chump Lady, My husband had an affair 4 years ago, which I recently found out about. They are no longer having a sexual relationship, …
Is Anyone ‘Grateful’ for the OW/OM?
Dear Chump Lady, I found your blog long after my husband discarded me for another woman after twelve years of marriage and three kids together. …
How to Deal with Taunting
Dear Chump Lady, I don’t mean to, but some little sea-hunts are completely wrecking my life right now and I don’t know how to react …
He Was Not As Advertised
Dear Chump Lady, I dated a guy this year, for almost a year, and about 1.5 months ago he broke up with me. I’m divorced …
‘I Want Him to Stay with the Other Woman’
Dear Chump Lady, I’m new to reading your column (just found it). I’ve been divorced 10-years after 14 years of being married. I found out …
Caught Him on the DoggyCam
Dear Chump Lady, First I just want to say I literally love you and your site has brought me so much comic relief into the …
Cheating on a Marine? Don’t Ask Ms. Vicki
An alert chump in the U.S. military sent me this link to the columnist “Ms. Vicki” whose advice runs in military publications and on military.com. …
My Best Friend Is an Affair Person
Hi Chump Lady, I got chumped many years ago during my first marriage, and I wish I’d had you back then (would have saved me …
UBT: Gina Frangello, Blow Your House Down
I’m a feminist and I find Other Women “feminists” so tiresome. Fucking around on your partner doesn’t make you a feminist, it makes you a …
Chumped by Two Chumps
Dear Chump Lady, I guess you can say I’m a chump-variant in that I had a runaway cheater. Married over 24 years to someone I …
‘I Can’t Face Being a Single Mum’
Dear Chump Lady, I’ve been thinking about writing to you for months but I just haven’t been brave enough… I found out in April 2020 …
Should I Send Her the Tape?
Dear Chump Lady, First of all thanks very much for your book and blog about which saved my life when I discovered my husband’s affair …
The Dying OW’s Confession
Dear Chump Lady: My soon-to-be-ex, was a serial cheater. D-Day #1 was in August of 2018, when one of his mistresses sent a confession email …
UBT: The Huggy Ex and the OW
Dear Chump Lady, I’ve had minimal contact with my ex until recently, when he started dropping round my house on a Tuesday while the kids …
I’m the OW and I’m Terrified He’ll Cheat on Me
Today is Election Day and Mr. CL is off at an ungodly hour to go cast his ballot. (I already voted using a handy drop …
UBT: ‘He Played Me Too’
You guys won’t believe the letters I get from Other Women wanting my advice. I know, it’s like gnats wanting wisdom from a bug zapper. …
Chumped and Questioning Feminism
Dear Chump Lady, I am 8 months post divorce from fuckwit, we were married for 21 years. It was such a long road though, years …
‘I Trolled the Other Woman’
Hello Chump Lady, I screwed up. I fed the beast. I know you say “If it feels good, don’t do it,” but I confronted my …
‘I Want to Blast Them on Facebook’
Dear Chump Lady, I just found out after 5 or 6 years of absolute insane digging (mental breakdowns, trips to rehabs, gaslighting to the extreme, …
