Tag: Pick Me Dance

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Should I Write the OW?

Dear Chump Lady, My husband left “temporarily” two years ago after my teenagers confronted him about his chronic emotional and verbal abuse. After a weird …

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‘I’m Trying to Show Her the Guy She Fell in Love With’

Hi Chump Lady, Great website!  I just discovered last Sunday that my wife of 13 years has been cheating on me with “some one she …

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Ex-MIL Thinks I Should Get Along with OW for My Son’s Sake

Dear Chump Lady, I have unresolved in-law issues it seems, and can’t make sense of how I react to them more than my ex-husband and …

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Pick Me Dancing for Love

Dearest Chumplady, Can you tackle this self-help notion I’ve been pondering for a while. Does anyone else feel like a lot of self-help books and …

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Dear Chump Lady, I apologized to him for cheating on me

Dear Chump Lady, Like all other Chumps, I never thought I would be here. I met the love of my life when I was 18 …

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Dear Chump Lady, My husband wants to date

Dear Chump Lady, Am I being unreasonable for having a problem with my husband’s ongoing relationship with a woman he tried unsuccessfully to seduce? One …

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The Plan B Offer

If things don’t work out with her, perhaps you and I could work things out. This was submitted to my “Universal Bullshit Translator” inbox. It’s so …

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The Futility of Confronting Affair Partners

Here’s a rookie chump mistake — confronting affair partners. Maybe you did this. Maybe you agonized about doing this. Maybe you’re still waiting to come …

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David Brooks Can Bite Me

I’m sure you’re all thrilled to crumbs to learn that New York Times columnist David Brooks — deli meat snob, scourge of single mothers, and misunderstood …

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The Pick Me Dance for Fun and Profit

After the last couple batshit crazy OW texts I’ve put through the Universal Bullshit Translator, I was thinking to myself — why? Why do Other Women (and …

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The Case of the Dangling Former Spouse

Dear Chump Lady, I am nearly at meh, three years from D-Day and two from my divorce from a world class Cluster B, alcoholic, successful …

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Dear Chump Lady, Do cheaters blameshift?

Dear Chump Lady, I was wondering if this is a common saying that chumps hear on D-day. Upon discovering my husband’ s texts to another …

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Dear Chump Lady, I’m too old to start over

Dear Chump Lady, My husband cheated on me. When I found out, it had been going on for a month or so…..but thought it was …

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When the Pick Me Dance Turns Deadly

I read the news of a murder/suicide in Philly this week with a sad horror. Jennair Gerardot, 47,  confronted the woman who was having an …

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Dear Chump Lady, I don’t want him, but she can’t have him

Dear Chump Lady, I have been with my husband for 15 years, married 12, 2 kids (9 and 5). He is a serial cheater. My …

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