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Dear Chump Lady, My therapist says don’t tell anyone he cheated

August 6, 2019 by Chump Lady

Dear Chump Lady, Do you think chumps should tell their family and friends that the reason they are separated from their spouse is because he/she cheated? My marriage counselor (MC)’s advice was that the reason for the separation was not anyone else’s business and said that by telling the truth (i.e. their spouse cheated) the betrayed […]

Filed Under: False reconciliation, Limbo, Telling people Tagged With: Cheating, Disclosure, playing the victim, secrets, Victim shaming

Playing the Victim?

February 12, 2019 by Chump Lady

Dear Chump Lady, During my shock of learning and trying to understand why he cheated on me, when I thought we had a great relationship (he was full of remorse after girlfriend #1 and begged for forgiveness..) — he is now leaving me for girlfriend #2. I have stated the obvious to him that what […]

Filed Under: Anger, Blameshifting, No contact, Trust that they suck, Untangling the skein of fuckupedness Tagged With: Blameshifting, playing the victim

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