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Should I Send Her the Tape?

December 31, 2020 by Chump Lady

Roll the tape

Dear Chump Lady, First of all thanks very much for your book and blog about which saved my life when I discovered my husband’s affair last year. We had been together for 21 years, married for 15 and for the last 12 years he’d been sleeping with his former howorker. The affair started two weeks […]

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: Other Woman, Revenge

Is Reporting Him Revenge?

August 3, 2020 by Chump Lady

cheater manifesto

Dear Chump Lady, My ex cheated on me with a very good friend for almost 2 years. We were actually couple friends as well. She filed for divorce last summer after a year of their affair and her divorce was final the end of Feb 2020. I found out about the affair 1 week after […]

Filed Under: Revenge, Telling people Tagged With: Pick Me Dance, Revenge

‘I Trolled the Other Woman’

June 22, 2020 by Chump Lady

Hello Chump Lady, I screwed up. I fed the beast. I know you say “If it feels good, don’t do it,” but I confronted my husband and the troll neighbor. Anyway, her kitchen window looks right into mine, so I taped a picture of a troll on to my window. I’m am just so creeped […]

Filed Under: No contact, Pick me dance, Revenge, What Not to Do Tagged With: No Contact, Other Woman, Revenge

Dear Chump Lady, How can I hurt him to the core?

October 8, 2019 by Chump Lady

Hi Chump Lady, Do you have any tips on how I can hurt him to the core? We were together 10 years. No kids. He cheated. I left straight away. We didn’t even talk about the details of the affair. I mostly felt anger and disgust. I moved to a different city. Cut off all […]

Filed Under: Gain a life, Meh, Revenge Tagged With: Hopium, No Contact, Revenge

Imagine Justice

March 8, 2019 by Chump Lady

Chump Lady is feeling a little stabby lately. This is what comes from following the news cycle. I won’t get into it. I try to keep things nonpartisan here, which when you’re a stabby person, isn’t the easiest thing. Trust me, there’s a lot of imagined lapel-grabbing and shrieking. And then a beta blocker and […]

Filed Under: Anger, Fun and games, Revenge Tagged With: Justice, Revenge

Dear Chump Lady, Where do I go with this anger?

December 20, 2018 by Chump Lady

bitter

Dear Chump Lady, After a year of being told lies about an affair I finally found the truth on the laptop. So he’s 50 and she’s a 24 year old work colleague who still lives at home. We have been together 11 years and have a little boy. He told me he is with this […]

Filed Under: Anger, Ask Chump Lady, Cake Eating, Revenge Tagged With: Anger, Co-habiting, Revenge

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