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Sad Sausage Tales?

September 18, 2020 by Chump Lady

The sad sausage self-pity channel probably provokes more Stupid Shit Cheaters Say than the other two channels, rage and “charm.” It’s kind of absurd for chumps to expect comfort from the cheaters who gutted us, but it is exponentially more ridiculous that cheaters want sympathy from chumps. Really, dude, you want me to understand that you’re […]

Filed Under: Blameshifting Tagged With: Sad sausage, Self-pity

‘He Returned and Acts Like Nothing Happened’

December 2, 2019 by Chump Lady

He’s a serial cheater and he won’t leave the home. Now he’s trying to pretend like nothing happened.

Filed Under: Gaslighting, Limbo Tagged With: Abusers, charm, Limbo, manipulation, rage, Self-pity, three channels

Dear Chump Lady, So why the hell isn’t she HAPPY now?

September 4, 2018 by Chump Lady

Hi Chump Lady, So my wife had an affair and after being found out asked for a trial separation. She said she had been “struggling with her feelings for me”, that whilst I was a great dad and someone she admired, she had changed and we had “drifted apart”. Yadda Yadda Yadda. I told her […]

Filed Under: Cake Eating, Divorce, Switzerland Friends, Telling people Tagged With: Self-pity

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