Tag: Sex addiction

The Unicorn of Reconciliation

We Reconciled… He Cheated Again

Hi Chump Lady, I just finished your book… For the second time. Two years ago I found out he had an affair with a 20-something …

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broken heart

My New Husband Is a ‘Sex Addict’

Hi Chump Lady, I’ve recently discovered my partner of 5 years and brand new husband is a sex addict. He has cheated on me in …

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He sees prostitutes. She’s ‘stuck in a fog’.

Dear Chump Lady I’ve been in an over 40-year marriage in which I’ve invested a lot of emotional equity. My husband was unfaithful from the …

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Voodoo doll

Nearly Engaged…Then Busted

Hi Chump Lady, Hoping to get some perspective from an outside source instead of having my friends and family in my ears (all of which …

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Dear Chump Lady, My Wife Is Near Perfect But I See Prostitutes

Hi Chump Lady, I happened upon your website and it seems to contain a lot of good advice for certain circumstances. But there are others, …

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Interview with Dr. David Ley, ‘The Myth of Sex Addiction’ author

Anyone dealing with a “sex addict”? I thought this interview with Dr. David Ley, the major debunker of sex addiction, was worth a rerun. My …

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broken heart

When ‘Sex Addiction’ Turns Deadly

Dear Chump Lady, I have been an avid reader of Chumplady.com for the last 16 months. After marrying my soon to be erstwhile husband, I …

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UBT the Trust Bank

CN, why haven’t we deconstructed the bullshit trope of the Trust Bank yet? OMG, I’ve let you down! Recently, I got a letter that went …

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Untangling the skein of fuckupedness

Dear Chump Lady, He claims he still loves me

Dear Chump Lady, You may have addressed this in the past. I’m leaving a partner of 43 years whom I’ve learned has been visiting prostitutes …

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Forgiving the ‘Sex Addict’

Whenever I think I’ve overstated the pernicious ubiquity of The Reconciliation Industrial Complex (RIC), something pops up on my news feed and gobsmacks me all …

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Dear Chump Lady, My husband prefers porn to me

Dear Chump Lady, I am very new to this site and honestly I’m just trying to wrap my head around if what is happening in …

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bitch cookie

Dear Chump Lady, What if there was no sex?

Hi Chump Lady, What would you do if your husband did the following behaviors in an 11 year marriage (two early elementary kids)? He says …

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UBT: Fred Armisen: Cheating “Is Just Something That Happens”

Apparently, comedian Fred Armisen (of SNL and Portlandia fame) enjoys some measure of renown as a douchebag. But like the characters he plays, he’s a nonchalant, …

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Dear Chump Lady, Is sex addiction a myth?

Dear Chump Lady,   It seems to me that a lot of betrayed spouses like to jump on the “my cheater has a sexual addiction” …

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