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Everyone Thinks He’s ‘Nice’

February 4, 2021 by Chump Lady

Dear Chump Lady, I am new to your site and am currently reading your book. Every-time I waver I re-read a section of your book to give me the strength and power to move forward. My husband of 30 years, together 35, met him at 18, three grown children (20, 24, 26) had a long-term […]

Filed Under: Switzerland Friends Tagged With: Nice, Switzerland Friends

What Happens to Couple Friends After Divorce?

December 3, 2020 by Chump Lady

Dear Chump Lady, I am 6 months post divorce after discovering my ex-wife’s infidelity in September 2013. This holiday season my children (12, 8) are with my ex-wife abroad with her affair partner on holiday with my ex in-laws. It sucks that my kids spend time with the man that helped break up my family […]

Filed Under: Divorce, Switzerland Friends Tagged With: Switzerland Friends, Taking sides

He Cheated… Everyone Feels Sorry for Him

July 6, 2020 by Chump Lady

Dear Chump Lady, It has been 9 months since D-Day #2 and today would have been our 9th anniversary. A few days ago my STBXH made a public social media post about his mental health — admitting contemplating suicide, being in counseling and on meds — even (and this made me sick) making a vague […]

Filed Under: Ego kibbles, Switzerland Friends, Telling people Tagged With: Sad sausage, Switzerland Friends

Dear Chump Lady, What happens to couple friends after divorce?

October 29, 2019 by Chump Lady

Dear Chump Lady, I am 6 months post-divorce after discovering my ex-wife’s infidelity.  My question is what happens to couple friends after divorce? Can anyone remain impartial and be friends with both sides, or do things naturally drift one way or the other over time? Can I remain friends with someone who has seen me […]

Filed Under: Divorce, Switzerland Friends, Telling people, Trust that they suck Tagged With: divorce, Neutrality, Switzerland Friends

Dear Chump Lady, Nobody gets being chumped (except chumps)

April 25, 2019 by Chump Lady

Hi Chump Lady, I’m two months post D-Day. My piece of shit ex-husband is a middle school teacher who had an affair with the school guidance counselor (or, “brother fucker” as I like to call her). Said guidance counselor also had sex with my husband’s brother, as well as his direct report at school. I’m […]

Filed Under: Ask Chump Lady, Switzerland Friends Tagged With: Solidarity, Switzerland Friends

‘Is it my fault my ex ran off with our nanny?’

February 19, 2019 by Chump Lady

Dear Chump Lady, My ex-husband cheated and ran off with the nanny. According to my ‘friends’ and family, it’s all my fault and they knew all along that this was coming. I feel like I’m being abused and cheated on all over again when they say these things. Can you please please put these sentences […]

Filed Under: Abandonment, Blameshifting, Other Women, Switzerland Friends, Telling people, universal bullshit translator Tagged With: Blameshifting, Nanny affairs, Switzerland Friends, Universal Bullshit Translator

Dear Chump Lady, I’m a chump, my brother is a cheater

August 29, 2018 by Chump Lady

Dear Chump Lady, I have a problem that I am not sure how to deal with my brother is a cheater and I don’t hate him. A little background info — I am a chump. My husband of 28 years cheated for 2 years, I had 4 d-days and I finally left. I left 1.5 […]

Filed Under: Ask Chump Lady, Children and infidelity, Divorce Tagged With: Switzerland Friends

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