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Ex-Wife Wants Old VHS Tapes for Christmas

November 24, 2020 by Chump Lady

A bag of narcissist ego chow

Dear Chump Lady, I have been divorced for 4 years now after going through an ugly divorce complete with 2 years of doing the pick me dance. We were together for 25 years with the last few years legally married (same sex marriage). My ex was having an affair and ultimately ended up moving in […]

Filed Under: Children and infidelity, Ego kibbles, No contact, Pick me dance Tagged With: Cake, No Contact, Triangulation

He Wants to ‘Explore His Feelings’ with Her Friend

November 18, 2020 by Chump Lady

Dear Chump Lady, My story as chump began last December when I received a letter from my husband informing me that he had developed feelings for a close family friend and that they wanted to explore these feelings but only with my consent. He wouldn’t, of course, want to harm our family or me! Now […]

Filed Under: Cake Eating, Pick me dance Tagged With: Boundaries, Cake

‘How Do I Handle the OW?’

January 29, 2020 by Chump Lady

Dear Chump Lady, How do I handle this bitch?! My husband left me last year because he needed “space.” Come to find out he has been seen with one of my “friends” —  a mom at the children’s school — for the last two years! They live in the same apartment complex. I spoke to her husband […]

Filed Under: Cake Eating, Other Women Tagged With: Cake

‘I Haven’t Been Happy for a Long Time’

June 20, 2019 by Chump Lady

crush with happiness

The other week someone asked me to decode, “I haven’t been happy for a long time.” (Also sometimes expressed as “WE haven’t been happy for a long time.”) It’s trotted out when the chump is looking for an explanation as to why their family life just blew up. Well DUH. “I haven’t been happy for […]

Filed Under: Blameshifting, Cake Eating, Cheaters Decoded Tagged With: Cake, Happiness, Trust That They Suck

Is Cake Better Than Abandonment?

February 11, 2019 by Chump Lady

bitch cookie

Have you heard the story of the threesome B. Smith, her husband Dan Gasby — and his girlfriend Alex Lerner? B. Smith is a retired lifestyle celebrity and restauranteur. Gasby is a former television executive. And Lerner is a blonde, white woman who nicely fills out a tight sweater. All three of them live together. […]

Filed Under: Bitch cookie, Cake Eating Tagged With: Alzheimers, B. Smith, Bitch cookie, Cake

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