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What Did You Find in the ‘Secret Sexual Basement’?
Recently on the podcast we interviewed trauma specialist Diane Strickland, creator of the YourStoryIsSafeHere.com site for partners of so-called sex addicts. She said when she discusses her own divorce, she stays away from details about her ex’s affairs, and instead frames it as her discovery of his double life. Which preceded her, and most likely
Today's post
What Did You Find in the ‘Secret Sexual Basement’?
Recently on the podcast we interviewed trauma specialist Diane Strickland, creator of the YourStoryIsSafeHere.com site for partners of so-called sex addicts. She said when she discusses her own divorce, she stays away from details about her ex’s affairs, and instead frames it as her discovery of his double life. Which preceded her, and most likely
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