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UBT: A Million Dollars to Reconcile

Dear Chump Lady, I separated from my partner of 20 years after I found out about his porn and prostitute addiction. The FW wants to reconcile and sent me this email. Please run it through the UBT for me. “Dear Jan, I am knocking around in our lovely lonely villa and I am convinced that we

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Today's post

Universal Bullshit Translator

UBT: A Million Dollars to Reconcile

Dear Chump Lady, I separated from my partner of 20 years after I found out about his porn and prostitute addiction. The FW wants to reconcile and sent me this email. Please run it through the UBT for me. “Dear Jan, I am knocking around in our lovely lonely villa and I am convinced that we

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