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Do You Have to Forgive a Cheater?

Chumps get caught up a lot on the notion of forgiveness. Taking the high road. Turning the other cheek. Being the bigger person. Let’s face it, after you’ve been cheated on — it’s all a big shit sandwich. Generally, you only have to eat that particular “I forgive you” shit sandwich if you reconcile with

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Today's post

Do You Have to Forgive a Cheater?

Chumps get caught up a lot on the notion of forgiveness. Taking the high road. Turning the other cheek. Being the bigger person. Let’s face it, after you’ve been cheated on — it’s all a big shit sandwich. Generally, you only have to eat that particular “I forgive you” shit sandwich if you reconcile with

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