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WE’RE HERE TO SAVE YOUR SANITY
Welcome to Chump Nation, the infidelity support site that doesn’t blame you for abuse. You loved someone with a double life, got lied to, and now you’re rebuilding — with your dignity, sense of humor, and values intact. Mighty looks good on you.
STARTER KIT
New here? There’s one thing to read first.
The D-Day checklist. Avoid the rookie mistakes.
Here’s your primer on cheater tactics. It’s the curated path through the site to get you familiar with our lingo. Quit pick-me dancing, trust that they suck and start healing.
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DANGEROUS & DEROGATORY – CHUMP LADY KEEPS MAKING THE NEWS
“A fiery, foul-mouthed, anti-cheating avenger”
Tracy Schorn has cultivated a personal philosophy of cheating, one that views infidelity as a form of abuse and absolves the betrayed of any role in their own betrayal.
“For cheaters, there’s Ashley Madison. For the cheated upon, there’s Tracy Schorn.”
The Survival Guide, in your hands.
The classic no-nonsense guide to surviving infidelity—and coming out the other side with your self-respect and your sanity intact. Now revised and expanded, this sharp, funny, deeply validating book cuts through the excuses, blame-shifting, and bad advice that keep betrayed partners stuck. Tracy’s battle-tested wisdom will help you stop obsessing over the cheater and start building the life you deserve.
Tell Me How You’re Mighty
Tracy, co-host Sarah Gorrell and guests talk infidelity, recovery, and the mysteries of the karma bus.
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THE SECRET SEXUAL BASEMENT – AN INTERVIEW WITH DR OMAR MINWALLA | EP.14
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could your cheater have a personality disorder? an interview with dr peter salerno | EP.100
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Tracy Schorn is a journalist who created Chump Lady in 2012 to be the sort of support she wished existed when she went through infidelity – a site not predicated on reconciliation but on self-respect. Since then, thousands of chumps trade advice, sanity checks, and the occasional dark joke. Reconciliation is for unicorns – support is for you.
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About Tracy
The Woman Behind Chump Lady
Tracy Schorn is a journalist who created Chump Lady in 2012 to be the sort of support she wished existed when she went through infidelity – a site not predicated on reconciliation but on self-respect. Since then, thousands of chumps trade advice, sanity checks, and the occasional dark joke. Reconciliation is for unicorns – support is for you.
