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6 Ways to Respond (or Not) to Character Assassination

April 28, 2020 by Chump Lady

A lot of my Chump Lady mail can be divided into two categories, “I got chumped… what are people going to think?” and “I got chumped… and my cheater is telling people terrible things about me.” Both followed with “And what can I do about that?” Nothing. Sorry, chumps. You can’t do anything about what people […]

Filed Under: Telling people, Trust that they suck, What Not to Do Tagged With: character assassination

Character Assassination: 6 Ways to React to a False Narrative

February 25, 2020 by Chump Lady

A lot of my Chump Lady mail can be divided into two categories, “I got chumped… what are people going to think?” and “I got chumped… and my cheater is telling people terrible things about me.” Both followed with “And what can I do about that?” Nothing. Sorry, chumps. You can’t do anything about what people […]

Filed Under: Telling people, Trust that they suck Tagged With: character assassination

Dear Chump Lady, I went grey rock, he went nuts

September 23, 2019 by Chump Lady

Dear Chump Lady, My chronically cheating EX husband is unfortunately stuck in my life until one of us keels over because I had a baby with him during our marriage. Now, I love our child to death, but had I known my ex was posing as a photographer and taking lingerie pictures of 18-19 year […]

Filed Under: Blameshifting, Character disorder, Trust that they suck Tagged With: character assassination, Grey Rock

Character Assassination? Probably.

September 6, 2018 by Chump Lady

A lot of my Chump Lady mail can be divided into two categories, “I got chumped… what are people going to think?” and “I got chumped… and my cheater is telling people terrible things about me.” Both followed with “And what can I do about that?” Nothing. Sorry, chumps. You can’t do anything about what people […]

Filed Under: Switzerland Friends, Telling people, Trust that they suck Tagged With: character assassination

Character Assassination? Don’t Let the Bastards Grind You Down

September 8, 2015 by Chump Lady

A lot of my Chump Lady mail can be divided into two categories, “I got chumped… what are people going to think?” and “I got chumped… and my cheater is telling people terrible things about me.” Both followed with “And what can I do about that?” Nothing. Sorry, chumps. You can’t do anything about what people […]

Filed Under: Character disorder, Cheater Tactics, Telling people Tagged With: character assassination

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