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Dear Chump Lady, How do I forgive myself?

April 10, 2019 by Chump Lady

Dear Chump Lady, I stayed in a marriage with a serial cheater/sex addict. I know I should have been out of there thirty seconds after the first discovery but unfortunately I just emotionally shut down ten seconds after that first discovery. I stayed and ignored obvious incongruities and lies. I stayed and became immune (or […]

Filed Under: Chumps Decoded, Forgiveness, Meh, Spackle Tagged With: Forgiveness, Forgiving cheater

Dear Chump Lady, Is this apology total baloney?

October 30, 2018 by Chump Lady

Dear Chump Lady, It’s hard to know where to start, but I divorced a serial cheater. Not only did he cheat with multiple women over the course of our 21-year marriage, he was mentally and physically abusive and he possessed this mind-boggling dodge and weave gift that he carries over from his political spin doctor […]

Filed Under: Forgiveness, Genuine Imitation Naugahyde Remorse Tagged With: Apologies, Forgiveness, Genuine Imitation Naugahyde Remorse

Fairy Dust Forgiveness

July 5, 2018 by Chump Lady

One of my most popular posts here is on the difference between real remorse and genuine imitation Naugahyde remorse. I thought we should have a post on the difference between true forgiveness and fairy dust forgiveness. I like a good forgiveness story as much as the next person. I’m a preacher’s kid. I grew up believing it […]

Filed Under: Forgiveness Tagged With: Forgiveness

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