Tag: Meh
The Kids Are Killing My Meh
Dear Chump Lady, I swear I would be at meh if not for my adult kids. Please help; I need advice (and I thank you …
Signposts to Meh?
Friday Challenge by popular demand — how did you know you were getting to Meh? Were there signposts along the way? A certain point where …
How Do I Set Boundaries with My Kids About My Ex?
Dear Chump Lady, My cheating ex-wife avoids me. We don’t speak on the phone. And she does not go to events with our kids if …
What Meh Feels Like
Dear Chump Lady, Today I was out shopping with my daughters (young adults now) and we bumped into my ex-wife’s affair partner. He was with …
Rubberneckers and the Remarriage of an Ex
Dear Chump Lady, So, I found out through the grapevine that my ex is on his way to the altar with Schmoopie. And when family …
How Do I Get Over My Envy?
Dear Chump Lady, D-Day was over a year go and I have since filed for divorce. I am the mother of two young kids and …
Fairy Dust Forgiveness
One of my most popular posts here is on the difference between real remorse and genuine imitation Naugahyde remorse. I thought we should have a post on …
Where’s My Justice?
Dear Chump Lady, Six months on from D-Day and I’m pissed. Where is my meh? Where is my happiness after the pain and trauma from …
‘He Brought His Girlfriend And I Lost My Meh’
Dear Chump Lady, I’ve done a ton of work on myself, I’m slowly reaching meh, and I’m practicing no contact as much as is possible …
When Will I Feel Indifferent?
Dear Chump Lady, How I wish I had found your book and website before I read Shirley Glass’s sexist, apologist Not Just Friends with him …
‘I Lost My Meh’
Dear Chump Lady, I thought I was really close to meh, until I had a tough day with kids, and then ran into my XH …
Is This Meh or Did I Just Give Up?
Dear Chump Lady, Here’s my problem (and I’m sure this is due to hopium): Three years ago I caught my cheating husband in an emotional affair with …
Is This What Meh Looks Like?
Dear Chump Lady, I’ve wrestled with what Meh looks like for such a long time and I wonder if I’m starting to approach it now? …
His Family Says ‘I Should Be Happy for Him’
Dear Chump Lady, My ex lives 12 hours behind me in the Philippines, with the “Only One True Love Of My Life”, (at least that’s …
How Do I Gain a Life Before the Divorce Is Final?
Hi Chump Lady, I’d love yours and the input of CN on the transition between Leaving the Cheater and Gaining the Life. I feel I’m …
Dear Chump Lady, The OW left him and I don’t know how I feel
Dear Chump Lady, Will you please help me identify a new feeling of mine? Meh-be it’s meh but I don’t know!!! Yesterday (a Tuesday) I …
Glimpses of Meh?
Anyone seen the Promised Land? Are you at Meh? “Meh” — that liberating place of acceptance — is where you no longer are consumed with cheater …
The Promise Land of Meh
Hello from my parents’ house, where Mr. CL is prowling for “Real Coffee” and I’m hiding under a duvet looking for rerun fodder. Found this …
