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Is Limerence a Thing?

April 6, 2021 by Chump Lady

schmoopies

Dear Chump Lady, Just curious what your thoughts are about the concept of “limerence”, and especially as it applies to midlife crises. After discovering the concept last year and doing some reading it really resonates with me as to how my 20 year marriage that had seemed so stable and authentic was sabotaged so quickly […]

Filed Under: Untangling the skein of fuckupedness Tagged With: limerence, Mid-life crisis, middle age 194 Comments

Are There Cheaters Who Left No Clues?

October 27, 2020 by Chump Lady

planet narcissist

Dear Chump Lady, There is a lot of talk on this site and others about how — in retrospect — cheaters left clues that we can now see.  Some chumps realize that their ex broke a lot of dates, or were vague about their past, or forgot their birthday, or said really insensitive things. However, in […]

Filed Under: Untangling the skein of fuckupedness Tagged With: Mid-life crisis, Untangling the Skein

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