Category: Meh

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Meh Sightings?

Have you had a glimpse of the Promised Land? Are you Meh? “Meh” — that liberating place of acceptance — is where you no longer are …

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Dear Chump Lady, How do I forgive myself?

Dear Chump Lady, I stayed in a marriage with a serial cheater/sex addict. I know I should have been out of there thirty seconds after …

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Dear Chump Lady, He moved down the street

Dear Chump Lady, I divorced my (abusive) ex-husband a year ago after 17 years of marriage and 4 children. That wasn’t fun for him, so …

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Dear Chump Lady, My ex has cancer

Hi Chump Lady, I’ve been a former Chump for 8 years; I’ve got the fair settlement, a great house I bought and restored pretty much …

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Glimpses of Meh?

Anyone seen the Promised Land? Are you at Meh? “Meh” — that liberating place of acceptance — is where you no longer are consumed with cheater …

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Dear Chump Lady, He’s dating a mom at our kid’s school

Dear Chump Lady, I was cheated on by my husband and father of young children after 16 years together, left absolutely shattered. I played the …

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The Promise Land of Meh

Hello from my parents’ house, where Mr. CL is prowling for “Real Coffee” and I’m hiding under a duvet looking for rerun fodder. Found this …

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Dear Chump Lady, I just want to watch it burn

Dear Chump Lady, My friend directed me to you Chump Lady, I have been humming and hawing about wanting to message you but I decided …

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Dear Chump Lady, I shouldn’t have looked…

Dear Chump Lady, I am a long-time Chump Nation member, and I THOUGHT one of the older and wiser ones. I was divorced 6 years …

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When You Need Cheater Twu Wuv to Fail

We’re all about Meh here at CN — that Promised Land of acceptance where the pain stops and you don’t really care what your cheater …

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Dear Chump Lady, Why meh? Why not screaming?

Dear Chump Lady, My D-day came about reading an email between my husband and his bimbo. When I previously discovered something going on, he swore …

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Dear Chump Lady, Do I have to be friendly with my ex?

Hi Chump Lady, My question is about whether I’m supposed to be friendly to my cheating ex-husband when around the children (14-year-old twin girls). We …

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Dear Chump Lady, He brought his girlfriend and I lost my meh

Dear Chump Lady, I’ve done a ton of work on myself, I’m slowly reaching meh, and I’m practising no contact as much as is possible …

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Dear Chump Lady, Where’s the Karma?

Dear Chump Lady, Well as the song goes, ‘Yesterday it was my birthday, I hung one more year on the line.’ But this year was …

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Moments of Meh

Meh, that Promised Land of indifference. Many have reached its shores, others see it in the far-off distance, and some just have to take our …

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Quit Waiting for an Apology

I think we should revisit the whole chump phenomenon of needing an apology from your cheater. It’s so galling. They broke this relationship, this family, …

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Cool. Bummer. Wow.

Dear Chump Lady, Please help! I do not know how to navigate this entire divorce mess with my two teenage daughters. My youngest sees her …

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Meh Sightings

Have you had a glimpse of the Promised Land? Are you Meh? “Meh” — that liberating place of acceptance — is where you no longer are …

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Your Most Un-Meh Moment

So I’ve been getting my son off to college this week — his first year. I’m sure those of you with college-age kids can relate …

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Dear Chump Lady, I chased my cheater through a mall…

Hi Chump Lady! I work in retail, and today I ran into my soon-to-be-ex and his affair partner (ex’s best friend’s girlfriend) while on my break. We’d …

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