Tag: Trust That They Suck
The Affair Partner Is Daughter’s Coach
Dear Chump Lady, My very handsome husband of 15 years (we have 3 kids ages 14, 13 and 11 and one on the way due …
Camilla Queen Consort
Several of you asked me to weigh in on the whole Camilla gets to be Queen Consort controversy. And, I’m sorry to disappoint you, I …
Woman Donates Kidney to Cheating Boyfriend
Well, CN, you may have been chumped, but at least you got to keep all your organs. Did you see this news item about the …
Left Her with 4-Month Child So He Could Be ‘Happier’
Hi Chump Lady, On my last first birthday without soon-to-be-ex husband, I am all filled with emotions. My husband and OW had an affair while …
Cheating Ex Wants a Character Reference
Hi CL, I was married for 25+ years to a serial cheater, liar, sex addict, abuser, manipulator (yeah, he was all that and a bag …
Is Breaking Up 4 Years After D-Day ‘Overreacting’?
Dear Chump Lady, I recently discovered your book and am about half way through it… D-Day was 4 years ago and I went through everything …
What If He Changes for the Next One?
Dear Chump Lady, I called off my wedding three months before the big day, after discovering that my fiance was sleeping around with multiple women, including his …
Is This an Emotional Affair?
Dear Chump Lady, I had been with my husband for 17 years and married 11 of those years. I found him emotionally cheating three times …
Is ‘Bum-Bum’ a Friend?
Hi Chump Lady. I just need some decent advice. I have been with my partner for 20 years next month! We have four gorgeous children. …
Idolized, Devalued and Dumped
Dear Chump Lady, I’m a professionally successful gay man in his mid-thirties. I live and work in the U.K. as a doctor and am on …
How Do I Stop Comparing Myself to the OW?
Dear Chump Lady, I am five months out from the last Dday. I did not do the pick me dance, I drew boundaries and protected …
Why Can’t I Get Them Out of My Head?
Dear Chump Lady, I need your take on what is still happening to me nearly eight years after D-day. I went no contact almost immediately. …
Snappy Answers to Chumpy Questions
Dear Chump Lady, My husband keeps cheating on me with the same woman. They were in a relationship before he and I got into one. …
What Makes the New Guy Better?
Dear Chump Lady, I wasn’t married, but had been seriously dating someone for a year. I know this is nothing compared to a long marriage …
Years Later and No ‘Meh’
Dear Chump Lady, I was married 20 years. It was around year 18 that my ex started the implosion, blaming me for his unhappiness for …
I Don’t Miss Him — Is There Something Wrong with Me?
Dear Chump Lady, I just walked away from a 17-year marriage. He admitted to his second one-night stand in our marriage. I’m not chumpy enough …
The ‘Only One Who Really Cares’?
Dear Chump Lady, I was married for 29 1/2 years to an amazing, dedicated, sweet husband. In 2009 we lost our teenage daughter after only …
I Don’t Feel Mighty. I Got Left.
Dear Chump Lady, Being the sleuthy sleuth I am, I discovered my husband of 15 years’ “emotional” affair (um yeah…her husband hired a private investigator …
Meeting the OW for the First Time
Hi Chump Lady, I have a problem that I am really struggling with. What do I do when I meet the ex and the OW …
He Butt-Dialed Her from the OW’s
He butt-dialed her from the OW’s place. Now she’s wondering if they can still be friends. Chump Lady on why that’s a regrettable idea.
