Hopium

Second Guessing Yourself About Leaving
November 30, 2024November 30, 2024
‘Why Do Reconciliation Bloggers Annoy Me?’
September 25, 2024September 24, 2024
Should I Give Him a Fourth Chance?
September 8, 2024September 8, 2024
What If I Leave Him and He Changes?
September 4, 2024September 4, 2024
She Won’t Leave Her Cheater
June 26, 2024May 12, 2025
Betrayal, Brain Science, and the ‘Power of Maybe’
January 17, 2024March 24, 2024
UBT: The Cheater Apology That Never Came
December 13, 2023March 27, 2024
She Wants Friendship with Her Ex. He Wants Bootie Calls.
November 6, 2023May 3, 2024
He Cheats, But He’s a Vegan
August 24, 2023February 6, 2024
Cheating or Overreacting?
July 31, 2023March 3, 2025
My Cheater Isn’t a ‘Bad’ Person
June 12, 2023March 24, 2024
‘I’m Considering Just Giving Up’
March 29, 2023March 9, 2024
Don’t Tell Me to Leave Him
January 12, 2023March 26, 2024
I Regret Unfriending My Cheating Ex
December 19, 2022March 27, 2024
He Left for the Other Woman, But Stays in Contact
October 3, 2022January 30, 2025
How Do I Get My Cheating Wife to Reconcile with Me?
September 15, 2022April 7, 2024
What If He Changes for the OW?
July 26, 2022October 19, 2024
Reconcile at a $12K Marriage Retreat
July 25, 2022July 25, 2022
Will He Commit After the Baby Is Born?
May 10, 2022January 27, 2024
The Affair Partner Is Daughter’s Coach
March 14, 2022February 25, 2024
Maybe He’ll See What He’s Missing
September 7, 2021September 6, 2021
Bitch Cookie: ‘He Doesn’t Blame Me’
August 30, 2021February 23, 2024
Is He a Unicorn or a Narcissist?
May 5, 2021May 6, 2024
It Was a ‘One-Off’ — Let It Go?
April 5, 2021April 5, 2021
When You Discover Your Boyfriend Has a Married Girlfriend
December 21, 2020December 21, 2020
Your Long, Strange Hopium Trips
December 4, 2020
5 Things That Keep You Stuck with a Cheater
October 16, 2020March 20, 2024
Chump Won’t Stop Doing Her Ex Favors
August 24, 2020April 7, 2024
Discovered CN by Googling ‘I Hate Esther Perel’
August 18, 2020
A Chump Off the Old Block
August 10, 2020May 12, 2024
‘I Let Him Come Over with Pizza’
June 1, 2020March 16, 2024
My Sister Is the Marriage Police
April 15, 2020
‘Other Chumps Infuriate Me’
April 13, 2020
When You Work With Your Ex
March 26, 2020March 26, 2020
I Still Want Her Back
March 25, 2020
Is This Meh or Did I Just Give Up?
March 19, 2020January 27, 2024
‘I’m Trying to Show Her the Guy She Fell in Love With’
February 12, 2020February 12, 2020
‘None of My Choices Are Acceptable’
November 25, 2019January 28, 2024
I Can’t Kick Hopium
October 16, 2019September 29, 2024
Dear Chump Lady, I can’t give up
September 5, 2018March 14, 2024
Why Do I Keep Giving a Cheater Second Chances?
December 28, 2016February 24, 2024
Dear Chump Lady, Please kill my hope
June 10, 2016January 1, 2024