Category: Revenge

Woman Outs Cheater in Aussie Newspaper

  Every Steve in Queensland Australia woke up alarmed last Friday, when an anonymous Jenny posted a full-page ad in the Mackay and Whitsunday Life …

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Sex with the Ex WTF?

Hello Chump Lady, I feel like I am reporting to my mom after doing something horribly wrong and looking for her to tell me it …

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bitter

I’m REALLY Angry. Is This Normal?

Dear Chump Lady, My husband walked in on Christmas Eve to break the news that he had fallen out of love with me and was …

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maintain your dignity

Don’t Send It, Three Reasons Why

Psssst! I have a little secret to lay on you…. People are not interested in your messy divorce. Okay, maybe your parents and closest friend. Certainly …

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cheater manifesto

Can I Tell His Family He Cheated?

Dear Chump Lady, My STBX informed me two weeks before Quarantine Thanksgiving that we had to talk. I shut the lid of my laptop and …

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Roll the tape

Should I Send Her the Tape?

Dear Chump Lady, First of all thanks very much for your book and blog about which saved my life when I discovered my husband’s affair …

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cheater manifesto

Is Reporting Him Revenge?

Dear Chump Lady, My ex cheated on me with a very good friend for almost 2 years. We were actually couple friends as well. She …

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‘I Trolled the Other Woman’

Hello Chump Lady, I screwed up. I fed the beast. I know you say “If it feels good, don’t do it,” but I confronted my …

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‘I Want to Blast Them on Facebook’

Dear Chump Lady, I just found out after 5 or 6 years of absolute insane digging (mental breakdowns, trips to rehabs, gaslighting to the extreme, …

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Did You Out Them on Social Media?

I saw a discussion the other day on whether or not to out your ex on social media. The comments were in favor, reasoning, “If …

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Dear Chump Lady, How can I hurt him to the core?

Hi Chump Lady, Do you have any tips on how I can hurt him to the core? We were together 10 years. No kids. He …

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scorned

Dump ‘Scorned’ Already

Here’s a word I’d like to see disappear from the infidelity conversation — scorned. (Almost always referring to a woman.) “Scorned Detroit Woman Lists Cheating Ex’s …

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Imagine Justice

Chump Lady is feeling a little stabby lately. This is what comes from following the news cycle. I won’t get into it. I try to …

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bitter

Dear Chump Lady, Where do I go with this anger?

Dear Chump Lady, After a year of being told lies about an affair I finally found the truth on the laptop. So he’s 50 and …

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Voodoo doll

When You Need Cheater Twu Wuv to Fail

We’re all about Meh here at CN — that Promised Land of acceptance where the pain stops and you don’t really care what your cheater …

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Dear Chump Lady, Is it okay to fuck with his head?

Dear Chump Lady, Is it OK for me to fuck with his head?  I really want to scare him and the OW over the holiday …

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Dear Chump Lady, How can I hurt him to the core?

Hi Chump Lady, Do you have any tips on how I can hurt him to the core? We were together 10 years. No kids. He …

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Dear Chump Lady, I smell a generous settlement…

Dear Chump Lady, I never cease to be amazed at the stupid shit my soon-to-be-ex, aka Porky Pig, does. And, I’m only two months out …

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Dear Chump Lady, I need some karma stories STAT!

Dear Chump Lady, I’ve reached my lowest of lows since DDay 7 months ago. I’m going through the nastiest settlement negotiations with my philandering soon-to-be-ex. …

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Dear Chump Lady, I want them to know I know

Dear Chump Lady, I am a chump. About 3 months ago I got into a fight with my wife and during the course of it …

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