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Chump Lady Slouches Toward Another Year

September 25, 2020 by Chump Lady

Today is my birthday and every year I rerun the first birthday column I wrote in 2012. It’s a meditation on craptacular chumpy birthdays, and what a difference a new life — and a new partner — makes. (Not that you can’t have the new life without a new partner. This always bears repeating.) Fair […]

Filed Under: Chump Lady, Gain a life Tagged With: 40th Birthday, Gain a Life, Life post-cheater

A Decade of Chump Love

August 13, 2020 by Chump Lady

Today is my 10-year wedding anniversary. I don’t generally blog about myself or the goings on at Chez Chump. But I thought I’d make an exception as I’ve got something to share in the Mighty column — I’ve been in a healthy marriage for a DECADE. I don’t suck at this. Mr. CL doesn’t suck […]

Filed Under: Chump Lady, Gain a life Tagged With: Gain a Life, Remarriage

How Are You All Self-Soothing?

July 24, 2020 by Chump Lady

I, for one, am sick of this pandemic. If you live in a sensible country that has this thing under control, God bless your functioning government. You may wish to skip today. For the rest of us, locked down, working/not working, working with kids jumping on the sofa bored out of their gourds, or home […]

Filed Under: Chump Lady Tagged With: COVID, Distractions, Netflix

Help Me Build a Better Support Site

November 8, 2019 by Chump Lady

Muffin top

It’s 3 a.m., you’re in early discovery stages of chumpdom, and you’re Googling to understand, chances are you’re going to hit a lot of Reconciliation Industrial Complex sites. Send me $399 and I’ll affair-proof your marriage! Just sign up for my Fuckwit Busters Marriage Retreat! Do you lack sophistication? Mate outside of captivity! I built […]

Filed Under: Chump Lady Tagged With: Chump Nation

I Draw Naked People

October 27, 2019 by Chump Lady

Every Sunday morning, I take a brisk walk to Georgetown and draw naked people for three hours. You’re weirder than we thought, CL. Well, I generally don’t blog about myself. On weekends, I’m usually wading through my inbox and trying to get columns together for the week. But my CL email got hacked (fucking hell!) […]

Filed Under: Chump Lady Tagged With: Figure drawing, Gain a Life, Winter Palace Studio

Chump Lady Slouches Toward Another Year

September 25, 2019 by Chump Lady

Today is my birthday and every year I rerun the first birthday column I wrote in 2012. It’s a meditation on craptacular chumpy birthdays, and what a difference a new life — and a new partner — makes. (Not that you can’t have the new life without a new partner. This always bears repeating.) Fair […]

Filed Under: Chump Lady, Gain a life Tagged With: Gain a Life, Life after divorce

Forums Ending Aug. 1

July 27, 2019 by Chump Lady

I want to pass on the sad news that I cannot do forums on Chump Lady any more. You may have just signed up explicitly to join the new forums I was going to do on Discourse. After much agonizing over this decision, I’ve decided to not move forward. If you signed up for forums […]

Filed Under: Chump Lady Tagged With: Chump Lady Forum

The Silent Chumps

July 17, 2019 by Chump Lady

The first year I started this blog, I was asked to appear on a HuffPo video panel. The subject was on being friendly with your exes. (Mine was the “no thanks” vote.) Before the segment began, the other panelists and I were chatting and introducing ourselves, off air. I said howdy, mentioned my blog, and […]

Filed Under: Chump Lady, Chumps Decoded Tagged With: infidelity, Shame

New Forums, New Features, News

July 13, 2019 by Chump Lady

Hey, I have an announcement to make — starting on Thursday, Aug. 1, the forums are moving to a new platform, Discourse. What? Change? You know I hate change, Tracy.  I know, I’m here to shepherd you through it. CN, we’re bursting our buttons. When I started this place in 2012, I was self-employed, living […]

Filed Under: Chump Lady Tagged With: Chump Lady, Discourse, Forum

Dear Chump Lady, Why do you use foul language?

May 20, 2019 by Chump Lady

Dear Chump Lady, Why do you use foul language? My wife cringes when I use bad language (she is a linguist). It detracts from your heartfelt advice. I bought your book on Amazon and it is right on. Do yourself a favor and cut out the potty mouth. Your truly, Jim Dear Jim, Thank you […]

Filed Under: Chump Lady Tagged With: Fuck

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