Sherrone Moore’s Affair Ends Badly
Sherrone Moore had everything. A top job as a football coach at the University of Michigan. A loving wife and three daughters. And then it blew up spectacularly after a two-year affair with a staffer.
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Many of you have sent me articles about the University of Michigan coach Sherrone Moore being fired from his job for having a workplace affair with a staffer. I didn’t really know how to approach it. No egregious non-apology apologies to decipher. No lurid Jesus cheating. I’m not cynical (or interested in football enough) to speculate, as some have, that Moore was fired because the team lost to Ohio State. Nope.
Just another stupid man with a double life.
Well, Tracy, he allegedly attacked his affair partner with a butter knife.
Okay, that’s an interesting domestic violence flourish. But also kind of baffling. If you’re going to open the kitchen drawers to find a weapon, why grab a butter knife? You might as well menace someone with a seafood fork. It seems a bit pathetic.
Honestly the whole story is pathetic. Another cheater who has every blessing — a beautiful partner, three healthy children, a dream job — who flushes it all away. Who got greedy. That wasn’t ENOUGH. Moore needed more.
Former University of Michigan head football coach Sherrone Moore loved to gush about his wife, Kelli Moore, before allegations of an “inappropriate relationship” with a staff member led to his downfall.
Sherrone, 39, and Kelli got married in 2015 and share three daughters: Shiloh, born in 2019, Solei, born in 2022, and Sadie, born earlier this year.
Beware the gushers.
“Happy three year anniversary to my life partner and best friend,” Sherrone wrote via Instagram in July 2018. “So proud of you and all your accomplishments. I am so happy and blessed beyond measure to call you my wife as the man upstairs leads us to live through him. Love you soo much and excited about what the future holds for us!”
The future holds home invasion charges for attacking your fuckbuddy. #blessed
Months prior to that, Sherrone celebrated Kelli’s birthday with a collage of photos from their life together.
“Happy Birthday to the most beautiful, caring, intelligent, selfless woman in the world!” Sherrone shared via Instagram. “I am so blessed to be able to call her my wife and best friend! I am so proud of all you have done and can’t wait for what the future holds! You motivate me to be the best I can be with a smile on my face everyday!”
He continued, “Thank you and hope this birthday is the best one so far! I love you @klenzmoore ! Have a wonderful day!”
Anyone else notice how oddly similar each of these over-the-top messages is? Unoriginality being a kind of a FW calling card. He probably texted his Schmoopie the same “can’t wait for what the future holds!” bullshit. (Me threatening you with a butter knife! #bebest)
Poor Kelli Moore
Kelli responded in the comments, telling her husband, “I’ll never know how I got so blessed to be your wife. But I thank God every day for you. I love you SO much!! Thank you for making my birthday/birthday weekend so amazing. You’re the best.”
Yes, Kelli, while you’re publicly praising your husband for being The Best, he’s having a two-year affair with a subordinate risking your health, financial future, and children’s intact home.
Raise your hand, CN, if you unknowingly praised your FW while being chumped. Oh, is that all of you?
Sherrone sent holiday wishes to his followers in December 2017, sharing a picture of himself, Kelli and their dog.
“Merry Christmas from our family to yours!!” he wrote via Instagram. “Hope everyone has blessed holidays! 🎄🎄”
Sherrone’s first-ever Instagram post came two days before that, celebrating the anniversary of his proposal to Kelli.
“3 years ago today I made the best decision of my life to ask this beautiful woman @klenzmoore to be my wife!” Sherrone shared. “She is my life partner, rock & my best friend! I love you!”
He added the hashtag “#marriedanangel” to his post.
#divorcingaFW is what I hope the future holds.
Speaking of unoriginal cheater story lines. I’m sure none of you will be surprised to learn that Moore blames his affair partner for his wandering dick.
‘You ruined my life.’
A woman who recently ended an approximately two-year affair with ex-Michigan football coach Sherrone Moore told law enforcement he grabbed butter knives from a drawer and pointed them at her after barging into her apartment, recently obtained court records show.
Details from the statements made by the woman, an executive assistant to the head coach, were used Friday to charge Moore. He was charged with third-degree felony home invasion, misdemeanor stalking and misdemeanor breaking and entering.
“(The woman) advised that she was carrying her belongings downstairs to leave, and while inside of her apartment she heard footsteps outside. (She) indicated that she ran towards the door to secure it, but before she could, Mr. Moore swung the door open and barged into her apartment with tears in his eyes,” the court document reads.
“(The woman) indicated that she was approximately 5 feet from the door when he made entry. She advised that she began backing up and as he was approaching her. (She) advised that Moore grabbed two knives out of her drawer and pointed them at her, ‘You ruined my life. You ruined my life.’”
Sherrone Moore — you ruined your own life. The tragedy isn’t your lost job, life’s potential, or the Ohio State loss — it’s that you ruined your family’s life. And they didn’t deserve it.
What was his wife’s response? I have a feeling she is going to believe him, she has been seen out walking the baby with him. Maybe he wrote her a love note…..blaming the OW for it all.
The creeps know how to act to snooker you and chumps don’t know what to do.
Tabloids say she was just with him at his lawyer’s office, but take that with a grain of salt.
I hope she’s talking to her own lawyer and planning an exit. I’m concerned for her safety and that of her kids, given how unhinged this guy is.
Shea probably hidden their DV stories too because if he took knives to his AP what has he tried With his wife and blamed it on career stress
Exactly.
At his lawyer’s office? For real, like you said, that isn’t good, not in her best interest at all, he is hoovering and chumping her all over again. She needs to get her OWN lawyer stat.
And if he’s going after people (in this case the OW, my case – FW went after me because I caught him.), definitely a scary place to be and she and her kids are extremely vulnerable right now.
I hope this means his defense attorney’s office.
100%.
The ex I just divorced blamed the OW for pursuing him. He’s 57 with a medical degree. She’s 32, high school drop out, alcoholic, worked in our business as a kennel cleaner and was a friend of our son.
Who had the power here???
These men are delusional, entitled and pathetic. So are the women they cheat with.
The invention of viagra has been detrimental humankind all over the world
My ex blamed the non-English speaking cafeteria worker for jumping on him at work because he was so irresistible.
Gag.
They want young it isn’t any more complicated than that.
Agree, It makes them feel like teenagers again. They never think past what it will be like when the excitement dies down with the whores. Mostly because “they got this” they are living a double life and pulling the wool over everyone’s eyes, you know, until they aren’t. Then their actions are someone else’s fault.
Young and easy pikins..
Well while he is blaming AP, Moore forgot to mention shipping Plan B to his Univ office….🧐supposedly how Michigan began investigating him. Or that he DOUBLED AP salary ~50K to 100K in a year.But sure – he’s the victim. 🤬
And the uni will have to handle her with kid gloves to avoid a lawsuit. They deserve it too, someone in the bean counters office should have noticed that.
Absolutely right. Their internal auditor(s) should have flagged that.
Never heard of him, so looked him up. In addition to his affair with his subordinate, a woman from Only Fans came forward to claim he was sexting her during important games, including one when his team lost, and alleging that he offered her and two other Only Fans women season tickets for a hotel foursome. She claims he deleted his texts but she saved hers and is trying to sell them to TMZ.
Several stories I read speculated that his wife is standing by him due to shock, for the sake of the children, or because he threatened to off himself. Stories vary about whether or not he grabbed scissors as well as the butter knives. One said he threatened the ex-AP with a butter knife, while others state he threatened to use butter knives on himself and supposedly told his ex- AP that his blood would be on her hands. It does appear that he was fired because she reported him, although their affair reportedly was consensual.
Although some butter knives are serrated, there are certainly sharper and better options if it was a serious attempt at anything other than making himself out to be the victim to his AP, his wife, or the larger world.
He threatened to kill himself with a butter knife? He wins the most transparent FW fake suicidal ideation award.
Am I the only one who looked at the photo at the beginning of CL’s piece and thought that the dog didn’t look to be at all happy about being roped into what is, in hindsight, quite clearly performative image management? .
LFTT
That’s Huskies for you.
Nope. I noticed the same thing. I also suspected that he wanted the dog because huskies are beautiful, but the wife is stuck dealing with all the husky difficulty and drama.
And the fur, or, as some call it, husky glitter.
OMG the fur. Yes, our husky was beautiful, but he was so extra.
It’s a beautiful looking dog, but it looks like it would rather be anywhere but there.
LFTT
omg ! The husky in that photo looks like he already knows what is going on.
That is the face that says, “girl, run!”
LOL!
I’m a Michigan football fan (my dad was an alumni and we lived in Chelsea) and heard about it as it broke. While I was recovering from the loss to Ohio State, who are currently having a social media schadenfreudelicious field day with the news. Thanks for that too, asshat.
I read through Sherrone Moore’s Instagram…it has since been taken down. He described himself as “husband” and “follower of Christ” in his bio. (There’s the Jesus Cheater element). Total bullsh*t hypocritical posts dispensing Vince Lombardyish advice about life and courage and leadership and honor on and off the field. Blah blah blah.
He had one of the most prestigious jobs in sports, a 30M contract, a beautiful wife, three beautiful daughters, a beautiful home. Don’t anyone ever try to tell me that cheating is about unhappiness ever again. He had to have side pieces to fill out his Having It All scorecard.
Cherry on top…..his co-conspirator ruined HIS life?!
For the first time in my life I feel embarrassed and self-conscious about wearing my U of M apparel.
JFC, is it really that hard to find someone who walks their talk about integrity?!
(I adore James Talarico)
Hey Blue, next time hire someone who’s a winner on and off the field, someone who genuinely lives the idea of the Michigan Man.
💛💙😪💙 💛
You know what’s sad? Had UM beat Ohio St. the past three years in a row, this may not have come to light! (Or, at least, not right away). Thats college football for you these days. Just waiting for Kiffin to flame out at LSU in a few years… (speaking of cheaters).
Evidently U-M had retained legal counsel and had been investigating the situation well before the OSU game. Both parties denied the affair when questioned, but doubts remained. Retaining winning coaches without moral compasses is a tale as old time, but it looks like in this case the wheels were in motion ahead of the OSU game outcome….
Thank you for saying cheating is not about unhappiness. That was the No. 1 reason my husband gave. It’s just . . . . tiresome. It does seem more and more difficult to find people with true integrity.
You can be unhappy and have integrity and leave. Honestly and ethically.
Agree, agree. And I should clarify that it’s also totally possible to be unhappy when you have a prestigious job, 30M, a beautiful wife, children, and home….
This situation has been boggling my mind all week….that he would have all those gifts and crap all over them. To quote my beloved fourth grade teacher from Chelsea, “What in the Sam Hill are you thinking?!”
Mine, too.
He praised her as “selfless.” Eeek.
So much eek.
Not only did I praise Cheaty McLiarface, I defended him against any and all who would dare speak a negative word about him. He repaid my loyalty with flirtations, infatuations, and an affair that he installed in our marriage for sixteen of our thirty seven years. I understand now that when he praised me to others it was meant to manipulate. What better way to deflect suspicion and maintain your “good husband” image than by praising your wife to others.
In the middle of another one of Cheaty’s denial fests, I asked what it was that he liked about me. After a long pause he said that I was a good mother and housekeeper. In that moment I knew that I had never been loved by him. I had served him as a dependable wife appliance making him look good to others and feel better about himself.
They are all selfish, petty, calculated, transactional little beings at their core.
What enrages me is narcissistic FW trapping and ydeceiving trusting loyal partners.
If these transactionsl sh*stains coupled up with trash of the same ilk like onlyFans girls, predatory affair partners, scheming gold diggers et cetera well then at least both parties would be aware of the arrangement, and innocent chumps be left out of it!
Cheaty reminds me of another cheater I knew. I met this couple at church and the husband was ALWAYS full of praise for his wife. I later learned that he was a huge, serial cheater.
💯!
What a mess, as always. They’re so full of themselves that they can’t begin to manage the chaos as it all falls apart. I googled just a little for context, and reportedly, he was indeed a Jesus cheater and was suicidal once he was exposed.
Boy, sounds familiar to me as mine all went down. My STBX was so unstable late in the negotiations that his own attorney reportedly was planning to call the police where my then-husband lived to do a mental health check, and my attorney was talking about different paths of strategy in case he attempted or continued to threaten to take his own life. He also encouraged me to be very wary of answering the door in case my STBX showed up and to be mindful if I left the house.
Well, we got it settled in a wild flourish, but that was a concerning time. Thankfully, I haven’t heard from my ex in years now.
I could barely believe this story after he was arrested but as the informaiton has unfolded I am stunned but I believe it. CL said it best – this guy had everything going for him and a future that most of us can only dream about.
I know something about sports and being a 39 year old black coach in a major college football program like Michigan has only one trajectory – nonstop up. Mark my words, when the dust settles he will be coaching again because when it comes to sports we ban athletes that peacefully kneel in protest to community violence and reward rapists, athletes that commit domestic violence, and even athletes that are suspects in murder. Not just athletes though, yesterday there was an article about how Arnold Schwarzenegger was being praised by fans for some 30-year holiday thing he does. I wonder how Maria Shriver feels? And of course there is the walking talking poster child for cheating, Donald Trump, and he was rewarded with the presidency twice. Being on the positive side of an inheritance means you must eat mouthfuls of shit.
Every word of this. Sing it from the rooftops!
During Trump’s first campaign, I listened to a lot of political analysts on the left twisting themselves into knots to understand why men from the very classes that have the most to lose from supporting such radically neoliberal candidates were doing so anyway. I’m sure there’s some truth to the idea that Dem reps have become so hypocritical in being bought and corrupted by military and industrial interests that there’s little difference between parties. I thought it was very cute how lefties assumed the public was supporting Trump in spite of his history of misogyny and rumors of criminal assault and sexual abuse of minors. But, all the while I kept thinking, nah, it’s really because Trump and his lackeys are so “rapey,” not in spite of it.
It’s partly a gut feeling from having formerly worked in a notoriously narc-filled industry in which sexual harassment and assault are so common place that I repeatedly witnessed bystanders reflexively siding with perps and silencing victims even in situations where bystanders did not benefit from doing this or even paid a steep price for it. It suggested the drive to support rapists is motivated by something else aside from merely leaning to power for career perks.
The idea also makes sense to me because of some of the social research I read while training as a DV advocate. For instance, there are several studies linking something called “rape myth acceptance” with support for authoritarianism and racism (as well as “infidelity tolerance”). All told, the series of studies seem to present “rape myth acceptance” as a kind of disgusting “sun” at the center of a “solar system” of every shitty human tendency. Furthermore, the theories even explain why some women support patriarchal misogyny despite having the most to lose of all: because they’ve internalized “rape myth acceptance” and even view non-rapistic men as not “real” men (and therefore disposable but that relates to another series of studies on something called “toxic femininity”).
Anyway, the above POV is why I’m a big fan of Chilean director Pablo Larrain because, in most of his films, he seems to explore the connection between rape and political authoritarianism– again, the idea that regular Joes, despite having little to gain and everything to lose from supporting dictators and dictatorships, might still do so because of the unspoken promise of being able to get away with rape in all its forms.
This seems about right in an historical sense because rates of rape and DV tend to soar under authoritarian regimes whether because laws against these things are overturned or not consistently enforced. It also fits certain views in evolutionary science and primatology (namely Richard Wrangham’s theories) that this pretty much sums up the motive of males among our closest ape cousins for groveling before violent alphas despite the fact that the top down dynamics of ape social structure lead to about a 60% male casualty rate from violence and make chimps a generally suicidal species. But like Steinbeck said of Americans rejecting socialism because too many people view themselves as “temporarily embarrassed millionaires,” the Ponzi scheme of dah patriarchy rides on the thin promise of ascending to power which will provide sexual carte blanche.
In any case, I thought the above message was pretty obvious in Larrain’s first film, Fuga as well as earlier films like Post Mortem, Tony Manero and The Club. I thought the same message was a bit less direct in El Conde and his series of English language biopics of famous women like Jackie (Kennedy) and Spencer (Princess Di) but still present. El Conde even verges into exploring what motivates some women to be complicit with or even promote systems that they have everything to lose by (the parallel among chimps is that token females can earn a bit of amnesty from the constant violence that females usually endure or even an extra lump of monkey meat if they commit violence in service of patriarchal agendas).
I didn’t find the theme very detectable in some of Larrain’s other films, though (spoiler alert), in the film No about the real life political ad campaign that finally unseated Pinochet, there’s a not so subtle message that the protagonist’s attempts to sexually control his ex wife (i.e., ride the slipstream of patriarchy) relate to his history of cowardice, opportunism and moral relativism regarding the dictatorship. I perceived that part of the character’s redemptive arc and also his success in figuring out how to combat Pinochet is that he has to come to grips with his own misogyny to finally grow a pair (or even have as much balls as the women around him) and stop disappointing the legacy of his politically braver father.
“But, all the while I kept thinking, nah, it’s really because Trump and his lackeys are so “rapey,” not in spite of it.”
I thought that from early on too. After the infamous Access Hollywood tape came out and he was more popular then ever, that was the only reasonable conclusion.
It doesn’t baffle me that women did this as well as men. I think it’s a reflection of their fawn instinct, a subconscious belief that cozying up to rapists will somehow protect them from becoming victims. They feel that the rapists will approve of them, think them special and therefore deem them unrapeable and see that nobody else rapes them either. It’s both depressing and (at times, when I can’t stand the misery anymore) laughable the way they look to Trump and Co. to “protect” then from mythical hordes of rapist “illegals.”
Many years ago I had what I guess you’d call an enemy (for lack of a better word, as this was online) who did this constantly. She would go on a campaign to make friends with the most vile, misogynistic, depraved men imaginable. Her goal was clearly to be deemed special by them, different from all other women, whom they considered subhuman. I believe she could have easily been diagnosed with borderline personality disorder. It was heartening to see that she was widely despised by all but the misogynazis she courted, not just for her nauseating fawning but her constant lies, dramatics and attacks on others. Once she even pretended people online who criticized her behavior had caused her to go into labor too early. 😄 She finally got kicked off the platform when she used her psychopath pals to cyberstalk me, and a sign of relief was heard all around. Sometimes you can beat them in small ways and certain situations, but the larger problem remains.
Yes, play whac-a-mole till the cows come home but the larger problem always remains.
I think I used to be some kind of Utopian who believed in the myth of human moral progress and teleological evolution because I would see stuff like this and assume it was some anomaly limited to a few weird people and some weird work environment. It never occurred to me that, in this day and age, it could be the name of the game. So I’d try to tell new colleagues in the next workplace about those “weird” events and twisted former workmates but, often enough, would get eerie reactions because– tada– the new environment and people were precisely the same mixed bag as the last.
I was a little like Voltaire’s Candide. It took a lot of repeat demonstrations of human nature to learn that, wherever you go, there ya are. At this point I’m not so much cynical but certainly far more appreciative when I encounter people with actual character.
FW cycled from critical to sayin that he loved me and only wanted to grow old with me back to unfounded criticism again but no social media gushing.
One year he did oddly gush about our child in the over the top manner described here and I think that’s when his cheating took a turn for the worse (paying rent for main escort).
Thank God I never gushed on FB or social media about FW narcopath! it felt disingenuous my spackle was not that strong JFC. My gut was obviously trying to tell me something too I suspect.
Speaking of “gushers”, years ago I was reading the Dresden Files series and noted that Jim Butcher had more than a few over-the-top gushing dedications to his wife, Shannon. Who supported him and was the breadwinner for YEARS as he wrote (she’s an engineer by training).
“Hmmm, you don’t suppose he’s cheating on her, do you? Am I being cynical?”
Well, he ended up paying $60,000 PER MONTH in their divorce settlement. I forget how long he had to do that, but clearly she proved something to the Missouri courts!
But this guy having Plan B shipped to his office kinda beats Butcher for chutzpah.
This just strengthens my belief that one should be wary of anyone who engages in performative, lovey dovey SM media posts about partners. It’s image management.
I was unclear – this was the dedication at the front of several of his books. I wasn’t participating on SM very much back then. I don’t know if he was doing it online as well.
Correction – $62,000/month for several years.
Yeah, my FW#2 did that BS to me too, would rave to his clients and co-workers about how much he loved us and how wonderful I was, etc. Then he lost that job and blamed me (sound familiar) and for revenge, cheated on me, raped me by deception for 5 months and then strangled me when I finally caught his cheating on his phone. Not sure why this dude went after knives, just use your hands man, much easier to strangle women (note my sardonic tone). Never in a bazillion years would I have thought my ex was capable of what he did, ESPECIALLY since he used to sing my praise and that of our kids for nearly 30 years.
WTF is wrong with people? So sick of people being shitty and selfish. It really is easy to be kind and nice and treat people right, and the added bonus is that it also feels good!
I mean, these guys go crazy, right? It’s like they have a timer that goes off after 20, 30, 35 years to detonate.
lol. Seems that way, doesn’t it?
Hmm, yes, FW was bragging about me to some work friend about half a minute before trying to find someone to cheat with (it took a while because he kept getting rejected, lol).
Hopefully this means I’m not a narcissist because, when FW repeated what he’d said to the pal, I felt uncomfortable about it rather than flattered and told him so. It sounded like FW was trying to one-up the workmate–who was having problems with his long-term gf– by presenting me as ultra-mega-fab in all the ways the friend’s girlfriend was not. Ew. There was also some sexual bragging that made me feel like my privacy was being violated.
A psychologist who consulted with an advocacy organization I worked for said one of the motivations for abusers to over-idealize partners to others is the same as the motivation for, say, exaggerating dick size, the size of the fish they caught or pretending to be closer to some famous acquaintance than they really are, etc., etc: to boost their own unstable self image and possibly inspire envy.
But because narcissists are said to doubt that they have intrinsic human value and are theoretically prone to pinning their self esteem on extraneous accomplishments or traits and external validation, I get the feeling that, to the degree that people with personality disorders (theoretically again) tend to invest in their own BS, I can imagine part of the fallout of idealizing anyone is that reality will invariably be disappointing. Sort of like, “But I thought you could fly and you can’t so I hate you!” Meanwhile the poor confused chumps is scratching their head because they never actually promised to levitate, turn water into wine, make FW the envy of all colleagues, part the waters or bring eternal life.
I think that might partly explain the rage that abusers express towards partners in the discard phase– that they actually invested in their own impossible expectations each time they bragged. There’s also the very basic social dynamic that the people they’re bragging to can sense the one-upmanship and just aren’t that impressed, don’t ping back enough ego kibble so that FWs run out to see if they can find some alternate partner who might inspire that delicious envy in others that they’re seeking. Like, “Maybe if my partner is younger and has bigger boobs and dresses sluttier, other men will want to be me and at last I won’t feel like such a walking abortion!”
Of course abusers can never admit to having delusional expectations or own the fact that their feelings of self loathing and insecurity are self-generated or that this results in drawing all their sense of worth from what they have or achieve or associatively. So it’s kind of like, in the discard stage, they’re accusing partners of making false promises or lying on the resume.
I sometimes wonder about the alleged self loathing narcissistic personality disordered people have, it’s often repeated but I don’t see it at least with the grandiose NPD EX-FIL. He’s quite arrogantly satisfied with himself.
I had the sense that my MIL deliberately tried to raise FW to be a narcissist because the dog-eat-dog culture and era she came from rewarded this and would eat anyone humble alive. Her older brothers were all very self-satisfied masters of the universe types most of their lives– at least until they got old, sick and disabled and their evil children devoured them.
A few days before D day, while in the middle of cheater directed couples counseling…using EAP funds..I typed out, at the therapists direction, a list of all the things I loved about my then- husband. Maybe 20 things. His list included just 1- LOYALTY. These cheaters love your loyalty but don’t have a drop of it themselves. It’s a huge charade with chumps pulling in last. This creepy coach had everything except loyalty. He had word salads, he had good husband actions he had THE ACT down just like my cheater did. These creeps just want variety, and have no idea how to love. Good for this creepy coach to get what he deserves. Likely his wife of 10 years will stick around for more. Hopefully she sees the light. We can only hope.
Some of the footballer wives have identities based on being the wife of Athelete so-and so (mahomes cough cough) they may hang in there just to not lose relevance.
If it were me, I would be kicking this guy to the curb so fast! Half of his millions is more than enough to support herself and the kids, a peaceful life out of the spotlight with million$ sounds heavenly. Better get her $$$ before more women come out of the woodwork with other charges, lawsuits, etc
Sell your house before the market crashes
Loyalty – Sam Vaknin on Youtube says narcissists will stick around for at least 2 of the 4 S’s – sex, service, safety and supply (narcissistic supply or kibbles, as Tracy would say). When you said loyalty was the only thing on his list, that came to mind. As long as they are getting at least 2 of them they will stay. Tracy says the same thing on here all the time “you are of use to them”. Shitty people!
Brilliant 👏..but I think they stick around until they find something new, even if 2 out of 3 are met. Or better yet, cake where you have it all. Narcs aren’t counting, they are only adding up winning for them. Whatever that feels like at the moment. I’d rather they did not stick at all
Oh, for sure wish they would just leave, but that would be giving up cake. And the cake is us, and their AP or the many AP’s they might have. Getting cake from all over! They live for it and don’t care who they hurt to get it.
She might stick around for a bit, but at some point I am betting the disgust will set in. Or at least for her sake, I hope so.
She’s had a HUGE shock to her system, her kids are little, and it’s the holidays. He’s been threatening suicide, she’s not far enough removed to see that for the manipulation and abuse tactic that it is. She probably feels like if she pulled the plug on their marriage and he did indeed kill himself it would be her fault (That absolutely is not the case in reality). I hope she finds the resources that support HER, not his image, so she can feel confident with whatever choice she makes moving forward.
“Honestly the whole story is pathetic. Another cheater who has every blessing — a beautiful partner, three healthy children, a dream job — who flushes it all away. Who got greedy. That wasn’t ENOUGH. Moore needed more.”
Yep, so prevalent among successful men at any level. (Yes I know women too), but in my personal experience in all the cheating family destroying asshats I have seem in my personal life, men tend to do this so much.
Also I hate the term “man upstairs”, if you truly have a relationship with God, I am suspect when that phrase is used. Or maybe it is because it is the phrase my fw used until he crashed and burned from his lies, so I am sensitive to it.
That dog is beautiful, but he has the funniest look on his face, like “what the heck is this idiot trying to pull”
When this story broke last week, I thought to myself, “I should send this to Chumplady… Naw, I’m sure she’s already had this submitted to her inbox dozens of times already today.”
Poor Chump lady gets the dregs of cheaters in her Inbox. How does she stay sane???
I did want to point out that while my EXFW used to sing praises for me and the kids, including on social media, that all came to a screeching halt when he started cheating. Which was one of the first red flags that made me suspicious of him. I really had caught him within a few weeks due to this type of sudden change in behavior and confronted him, but I didn’t trust myself or my instincts and listened to his BS lies and excuses for 5 months. I even said to him, “we aren’t going to do that to each other, cheat or hurt each other in that way, we just walk away if we aren’t happy,” and he stood right there and looked me in the eye and lied to me and agreed. F*ucker. But that is not my fault. These rotten apples use our love and trust against us, actually weaponize our love and trust against us.
Disgusting and sick!
One great take-away for chumps:
Do not believe social media.
1000%. I would actually suspect that if a partner was gushing about me on SM, it was insincere, because why else would he need to be so performative about it and make sure everyone sees it. That would make me suspicious he was cheating.
“I am so happy and blessed beyond measure to call you my wife as the man upstairs leads us to live through him.”
I would argue that this passage demonstrates that he is a Jesus cheater, albeit a relatively low key one compared to most of them.
Its a butter knife coz she spread ’em
LOL!
If the sniveling coward really wanted to off himself he would not have picked up a butter knife. It sounds like maybe the AP threatened exposing the affair and he tried the fake suicidal angle on her.
Betcha he’s tried the same now with the wife but perhaps with a more believable d
kitchen implement ROFLMAO.
It’s so tiresome these creeps all follow the same ole narcissistic cheater manipulative playbook. One of the best things about Tracy’s book and blog was opening my eyes to just how trite and common FW narcopath’s behavior was worldwide. I hope this football guy’s wife finds this blog
I just read that his wife is standing by him. They were photographed at his attorneys office. I hope she wakes up soon. We all know that he won’t change.
He’s just another Jesus-cheater FW who brings anything but glory to God. SMH…
We can all agree cheaters are vile awful humans but I do get lost as to why we must also be ardent Trump-haters to belong in the chump club.