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Abandonment

When cheaters devalue and discard. How to deal with abandonment.

Need CN’s Powerful Words of Support
September 1, 2021February 4, 2024
He Doesn’t Know If He’ll Come Home
August 10, 2021
I Don’t Feel Mighty. I Got Left.
May 11, 2021February 4, 2024
Controlling the Narrative
November 23, 2020November 23, 2020
Returning to Caretake a Cheater Late in Life?
October 13, 2020February 18, 2024
‘I Can’t Talk to My Kids About Their Father’
September 15, 2020
‘How Could He Walk Away from His Wife and Kids?’
September 3, 2020
Cheater Throws Them Out, OW Moves In
June 25, 2020
What Do I Do with the Phantom Pain of Abandonment?
March 18, 2020April 17, 2024
Dear Chump Lady, I feel unworthy
August 7, 2019August 7, 2019
UBT — He Took the Soup
June 24, 2019March 16, 2024
Dear Chump Lady, I’m pregnant and pick me dancing
June 11, 2019June 11, 2019
Is Cake Better Than Abandonment?
February 11, 2019December 25, 2023
Why Can’t I Accept That He Sucks?
January 23, 2019June 6, 2024
Dear Chump Lady, Where do I put his stuff?
November 13, 2018
The “What If They’re Really The One” Fear
November 1, 2018November 1, 2018
Dear Chump Lady, I have nightmares
October 16, 2018January 29, 2024
Dear Chump Lady, He left me to BLOG with the OW?
October 8, 2018October 8, 2018
Dear Chump Lady, How did I not know?
October 2, 2018May 4, 2024
Dear Chump Lady, I don’t have any good memories of him
September 12, 2018September 12, 2018
Emotional Affairs, Exit Affairs, and Ghosts
July 3, 2018February 4, 2024
“What do I tell my crying children?”
June 25, 2018June 24, 2018
How to Get Past the Rage Stage of Betrayal Trauma
January 1, 2018March 1, 2024
Dear Chump Lady, Will anyone ever love me with stretchmarks?
December 21, 2017December 21, 2017
Dear Chump Lady, Did she leave because I’m not good enough?
February 23, 2017
UBT: A Letter from ‘the Baby’
December 7, 2016February 2, 2024
Dear Chump Lady, How long do you think this affair was going on?
September 27, 2016September 27, 2016
When Does the Pain of Infidelity Go Away?
August 24, 2016May 4, 2024
Dear Chump Lady, How do I keep myself from rewriting history?
July 8, 2016July 8, 2016
Dear Chump Lady, When do I tell him I’m dumping him?
July 7, 2016
Dear Chump Lady, My world has crashed around me
April 21, 2016April 21, 2016
UBT: ‘I’m in a Good Place Now’
April 7, 2016February 14, 2024
Social Media Shame for Deadbeats
February 11, 2016February 11, 2016
Dear Chump Lady, “We never had sex anymore…”
November 11, 2015
Parents Who Abandon
June 16, 2015June 16, 2015
The Ones Who Just Leave and Abandon
September 29, 2014January 21, 2024
Dear Chump Lady, Should I divorce his cheating, Mormon ass?
September 1, 2014
Why Did Daddy Leave Us? Because Daddy Is an Asshole
July 30, 2014March 6, 2024
Why Did He Come Back Only to Cheat Again?
July 29, 2014October 1, 2024
Dear Chump Lady, Abandoned while pregnant, should he pay support?
June 13, 2014March 9, 2024
Over Sharing and Chumpdom
May 31, 2014August 23, 2014
Dear Chump Lady, Why do I think my marriage still has a shot… when it doesn’t?
May 3, 2014