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Cheater Tactics

The common manipulation tactics cheaters use to maintain their position of advantage over chumps.

Dear Chump Lady, Lack of melatonin made him cheat
December 14, 2014December 14, 2014
When Cheaters Do Therapy… Some Precautions
December 10, 2014January 25, 2024
Dear Chump Lady, What do you think of spontaneous “confessions”?
November 10, 2014February 4, 2024
The Cure for Cheating — Plastic Surgery? WTF?
November 5, 2014November 5, 2014
Blame a Chump, Save a Unicorn
November 4, 2014
Confessions of a Better Sort of Cheater
August 21, 2014August 21, 2014
If You Thought I Was That Sort of Person, You Shouldn’t Be With Me
July 10, 2014July 10, 2014
Dear Chump Lady, I suspect an affair
June 8, 2014August 23, 2014
Dear Chump Lady, He doesn’t want me, so why hold up the divorce?
June 3, 2014June 3, 2014
When Splendid People Cheat
May 22, 2014May 22, 2014
Stupidest Blameshifting You Got?
April 15, 2014October 1, 2024
Dear Chump Lady, My husband doesn’t know the OW ratted him out
April 11, 2014January 27, 2024
Translating Cheater-ese
April 7, 2014April 7, 2014
Dear Chump Lady, He says my insecurity made him cheat
March 23, 2014August 23, 2014
Dear Chump Lady, Maybe I was a bad wife?
March 21, 2014March 21, 2014
Cheap Shit Cheaters Do
March 20, 2014August 23, 2014
The Hail Mary Play for Kibbles
March 6, 2014March 6, 2014
Love Without Respect
February 25, 2014August 23, 2014
Dear Chump Lady, My soon-to-be-ex wants to take a family vacation together
February 16, 2014February 16, 2014
Dear Chump Lady, Now that I’m done, he’s “ill”
February 7, 2014
Dear Chump Lady, I’m confused, well sorta
January 23, 2014February 7, 2024
She Just Discovered Her Girlfriend Is Married
January 9, 2014July 18, 2024
When Cheaters Give Infidelity Advice
January 7, 2014January 7, 2014
The Cheating Had ‘Nothing to Do with Me’
January 3, 2014November 21, 2024
Dear Chump Lady, Is he a decent man with a series of unfortunate events?
December 31, 2013December 31, 2013
Reconsider Me? No, Please Don’t
December 17, 2013December 17, 2013
Dear Chump Lady, Is it possible to be too meh?
October 23, 2013
Dear Chump Lady, Did I do a bad thing?
October 22, 2013January 28, 2024
Oh hey! I know that mindfuck!
July 26, 2013October 15, 2014
Dear Chump Lady, Please decode the cake
June 17, 2013October 15, 2014
Is Sexless Marriage a Cheater Excuse?
March 27, 2013January 29, 2024
Is Infidelity Abuse? Chump Lady vs. Vicki Larson
February 28, 2013December 28, 2024
When the Cheater Needs ‘More Time’ to Decide
December 20, 2012March 1, 2024
When the Cheater Has a Personal Epiphany
December 13, 2012June 13, 2024
The Other Woman Defends Cheating as ‘Just Sex’
September 28, 2012February 28, 2024
Why Do Cheaters Get Married?
July 12, 2012October 6, 2025
An Interview with Dr. George Simon on Character Disturbance
June 29, 2012March 2, 2024
Ego Kibbles or Narcissistic Supply
April 28, 2012March 20, 2024