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Pick me dance

The pick me dance a competition between a partner and an affair partner to “win” the cheater. The only winning move is not to play.

Have a Chat with Coworker Affair Partner? Just Don’t.
October 22, 2019March 24, 2024
Dear Chump Lady, I’m pregnant and pick me dancing
June 11, 2019June 11, 2019
David Brooks Can Bite Me
April 16, 2019February 29, 2024
Dear Chump Lady, He told me not to tell
April 1, 2019April 1, 2019
Dear Chump Lady, Please be mean
March 25, 2019March 27, 2024
Is All This Pain Worth It, If He Changes?
December 6, 2018October 11, 2024
My Wife Kissed a Coworker
November 19, 2018January 20, 2024
The Pick Me Dance and Polyamory
November 14, 2018May 4, 2024
Dear Chump Lady, I can’t give up
September 5, 2018March 14, 2024
I’m Obsessed With the Other Woman
August 13, 2018February 25, 2024
The Case of the Dangling Former Spouse
July 30, 2018
When You Perform the Pick Me Dance Wrong
July 16, 2018February 12, 2024
“What do I tell my crying children?”
June 25, 2018June 24, 2018
Do Cheaters Blameshift?
May 14, 2018April 19, 2024
How to Respond to ‘I’ve Changed!
May 9, 2018March 13, 2024
Dear Chump Lady, I’m too old to start over
April 30, 2018April 30, 2018
I Don’t Want Him, But the Other Woman Can’t Have Him
April 2, 2018February 25, 2024
My husband had an affair with my cousin: Should I confront her?
January 18, 2018February 25, 2024
The Futility in Confronting Affair Partners
November 6, 2017May 17, 2024
I Slept with My Ex!
September 28, 2017March 9, 2024
Husband Is in an Emotional Affair with His High School Girlfriend
June 6, 2017November 23, 2024
Dear Chump Lady, How do I get over the pick-me dance?
June 5, 2017June 5, 2017
Open Marriage Skepticism
May 15, 2017May 15, 2017
Dear Chump Lady, I’ll leave him after I lose 20 lbs
March 30, 2017March 30, 2017
UBT: “I was just experimenting”
March 2, 2017
The Condescension of Other Women
September 13, 2016March 13, 2024
How Pretty Did You Pick Me Dance?
April 15, 2016February 4, 2024
Is the Other Woman Prettier?
March 17, 2016January 27, 2024
50 Shades of Moral Ambiguity
February 25, 2016February 25, 2016
Maybe the Other Woman Is ‘The One’?
February 17, 2016March 2, 2024
Dear Chump Lady, Can you please stop me begging for my marriage?
January 4, 2016January 5, 2016
The Pick Me Dance for Fun and Profit
November 10, 2015April 7, 2024
Dear Chump Lady, Do I just like drama?
February 10, 2015
Dear Chump Lady, My husband wants a polyamorist marriage
January 21, 2015
Dear Chump Lady, The OW calls me for advice!
September 24, 2014
Reconsider Me? No, Please Don’t
December 17, 2013December 17, 2013
Dear Chump Lady, I’m the OW. Do I give his wife the details?
November 25, 2013March 27, 2024
Dear Chump Lady, Hysterical bonding… WTF?!
November 11, 2013February 18, 2024
Dear Chump Lady, Did I do a bad thing?
October 22, 2013January 28, 2024
Why Am I Still Having Sex with My Ex?
November 11, 2012February 19, 2024
The ‘Pick Me’ Dance
April 23, 2012January 9, 2026