Dear Chump Lady, I find myself at a crossroads again. My boyfriend of 14 years cheated on me for three years with the same woman …
Dear Chump Lady, Last summer my wife gave me the whole “I love you, but I’m not in love with you” speech over text while …
Dear Chump Lady, I’m getting my ducks in a row. Interested on your take on Schmoopie’s correspondence. I can scarcely wrap my head around it. …
Hello Chump Lady, I just started reading your blog. I found it on Reddit after looking up “can a cheater change”. I’m not really sure …
Dear Chump Lady, Do you think you can achieve meh while still married to the cheater? I have been with my husband for 41 years. …
Dear Chump Lady, What do you think of sex with the STBX? I’ve lost weight and am looking pretty good. I want him to see …
Dear Chump Lady, I’m 5 years into this shitshow now and mostly am fairly chilled about everything, albeit with the occasional trigger that sets me …
Dear Chump Lady, So I have been with my husband for 14 years, married for one. In late 2020 he started fighting with me often …
I have a dear friend — we’ll call her Lisa — whose father is…. well… a piece of work. He was a very successful executive, …
Hello Chump Lady, Thank you for an amazing site that has helped me through the worst time of my life. The background: two months ago, …
One of the lousier ways to find out you’re a chump is having the news sprung on you via the affair partner. There are worse …
Dear Chump Lady, Just this week while scrolling through various TV channels, I unfortunately landed on the show JOE MILLIONAIRE. Yep…a bunch of beautiful women …
As a chump watching the new HBO Sex in the City reboot, And Just Like That, must feel akin to a black person watching Gone …
Dear Chump Lady, My fiancee has a (married) BFF who is an ex-lover. They used to hook up whenever they were single. Early in our …
Hello Chump Lady, How I wish I had found you months ago. Before I had invested my time and money into “get your marriage back!” …
One of the classic “Stupid Shit Cheaters Say” utterances is, “You know, if you met (the Schmoopie), you’d really like (him/her)! They’re a lot like …
Hello Chump Lady, I feel like I am reporting to my mom after doing something horribly wrong and looking for her to tell me it …
Dear Chump Lady, I found out last week that my wife has started an affair right under my nose: she comes home one evening saying …
Dear Chump Lady. He left December 5th out of nowhere. He went to work and showed up with a u-haul. He told me for weeks …
Hi Chump Lady, Life is good at five years post-divorce. I haven’t talked to or seen ex since the settlement signing/final appearance in front of …