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Cheater Tactics

The common manipulation tactics cheaters use to maintain their position of advantage over chumps.

He’s Sad and I Feel Responsible
May 6, 2020February 18, 2024
‘I Lost My Meh’
May 4, 2020May 13, 2020
Cheater Told Me He Loved Me
April 29, 2020May 12, 2024
He Left Me. Why Won’t He Agree to a Divorce?
April 22, 2020April 22, 2020
UBT: “Will Our Affair Survive the Lockdown?”
April 20, 2020April 20, 2020
Coronavirus Hoovering?
April 16, 2020February 13, 2024
Can You Imagine Being Quarantined With Your Ex?
April 9, 2020April 9, 2020
Is This Cheating?
March 31, 2020March 31, 2020
When You Work With Your Ex
March 26, 2020March 26, 2020
‘I Thought You Were Okay With It’
March 23, 2020February 12, 2024
Grieving the Affair Partner and Other BS
March 10, 2020September 23, 2024
Should I Write the OW?
February 26, 2020February 26, 2020
‘Don’t Call It Snooping’
February 17, 2020April 19, 2024
The Benevolent Other Woman
February 5, 2020February 5, 2020
He Says I’m “UnChristian” for Divorcing Him
January 23, 2020March 24, 2024
Why Does My Cheating Ex Want to Be Friends?
December 30, 2019March 13, 2024
‘My Therapist Wants to Know How I Caused My Husband to Cheat’
December 23, 2019March 26, 2024
UBT on Guy Who Wants to Keep Both Sex Workers and His Girlfriend
December 19, 2019March 26, 2024
‘I Can’t Trust That She Sucks’
December 17, 2019December 17, 2019
UBT Responds to Ex Dictating Where Kids Can Open Presents
December 16, 2019February 12, 2024
‘I Feel Guilty for Leaving Him’
December 12, 2019January 30, 2024
Redefining Intimacy
December 6, 2019May 16, 2024
UBT: ‘It’s Not Who I Am’
November 14, 2019
Are ‘Emotional Affairs’ and Texting Other Women Cheating?
November 5, 2019January 24, 2024
Dear Chump Lady, What’s my role in the breakup?
October 28, 2019May 16, 2024
I Can’t Kick Hopium
October 16, 2019September 29, 2024
More Stupid Shit Cheaters Say
October 4, 2019January 25, 2024
4 Things You Don’t Know About Cheating Until It Happens to You
September 24, 2019January 29, 2024
My Husband Is a Marriage Counselor with a Double Life
September 3, 2019October 2, 2024
Cheating Wife Needs a ‘Safe Space’
August 26, 2019August 26, 2019
Dear Chump Lady, He says I’m ‘selfish’ for leaving him
June 19, 2019February 12, 2024
My Wife Cheated with a Woman
June 13, 2019January 15, 2024
Dear Chump Lady, Am I just a chump stereotype?
May 16, 2019May 16, 2019
UBT: ProJared’s Divorce Statement
May 13, 2019May 13, 2019
Way to Take Down a Cheater
May 8, 2019May 8, 2019
Rethinking the Psychologists Rethinking Monogamy
May 6, 2019August 5, 2025
Dear Chump Lady, How did he turn into a douche?
May 2, 2019May 2, 2019
Dear Chump Lady, He told me not to tell
April 1, 2019April 1, 2019
Dear Chump Lady, I can’t get my ex’s voice out of my head
March 4, 2019March 4, 2019
Playing the Victim?
February 12, 2019February 12, 2019
Is Cake Better Than Abandonment?
February 11, 2019December 25, 2023
Do Cheaters All Work from the Same Script?
January 15, 2019March 13, 2024