Category: Sex addiction
Sex Addict Therapist Douglass Weiss Gets Divorced
Well, I don’t really keep up on the goings on of celebrity sex therapists quacks. So many unicorns, so little time. But an alert chump …
Is Every Cheater Mentally Ill?
Dear Chump Lady, I have a question: my soon-to-be-ex is a megalomaniac, socio-psycho-pathic compulsive liar. He lacks empathy and borders on sadism. No, no border. …
Do Cheaters Disguise Themselves As Addicts?
Dear Chump Lady, I’m a chump with a 7-year relationship full of deceit and cheating under my belt. It just ended last week and I’m …
It’s Different. He’s Been to Therapy.
Dear Chump Lady, Let me tell you my story because I find it quite impressive. And also because there are some things about it I …
She Won’t Leave Her Cheater
Dear Chump Lady, My husband and I don’t know what to do, his sister (my SIL) is a chump of epic proportions. She is 18 …
Five Months Pregnant and He Announces He’s Getting His ‘Needs’ Met Elsewhere
Hi Chump Lady, A little about my situation: I’m five and a half months pregnant with my and my boyfriend of four years’ much wanted …
Husband Uses Massage Parlors
Dear Chump Lady, I would appreciate your advice. My husband had gone out to “run an errand.” I received a text that said “Come in. …
He Says He’s a Sex Addict. Should I Keep Dating Him?
Dear Chump Lady, I’ve read through all your archives and can’t quite find a situation like mine, and I don’t know what to do. I …
She Was Going to ‘Make It Up to Me’
Hello Chump Lady, I’ve been reading your posts for the past three years understanding and yet ignoring all of your sage advice till just recently. …
He Cheated on Me with Prostitutes
Hi Chump Lady, I just found proof and eventually received a disclosure from my boyfriend of 1.5 years that he has been cheating on me …
We Reconciled… He Cheated Again
Hi Chump Lady, I just finished your book… For the second time. Two years ago I found out he had an affair with a 20-something …
My Mom Sided with the Cheater
Dear Chump Lady, After five years of being with my soon-to-be-ex husband, (4 years engaged, 10 best friends), I finally leapt off the proverbial cliff …
But He’s Such a Nice Guy!
Dear Chump Lady, My husband of 25 years is a really good father/uncle/church member, who is friendly to everyone and is generally a very nice …
UBT: Married Trader with a Sugar Baby
New York magazine runs a feature called “Sex Diaries,” sort of like Penthouse forum but without the improving articles. Readers anonymously send in details of their …
My New Husband Is a ‘Sex Addict’
Hi Chump Lady, I’ve recently discovered my partner of 5 years and brand new husband is a sex addict. He has cheated on me in …
He sees prostitutes. She’s ‘stuck in a fog’.
Dear Chump Lady I’ve been in an over 40-year marriage in which I’ve invested a lot of emotional equity. My husband was unfaithful from the …
The ‘People Pleaser’ Excuse
I used to see this “wayward” excuse all the time on infidelity RIC forums — the cheater isn’t a vapid, selfish, destructive person. No! They’re a …
Interview with Dr. David Ley, ‘The Myth of Sex Addiction’ author
Anyone dealing with a “sex addict”? I thought this interview with Dr. David Ley, the major debunker of sex addiction, was worth a rerun. My …
When ‘Sex Addiction’ Turns Deadly
Dear Chump Lady, I have been an avid reader of Chumplady.com for the last 16 months. After marrying my soon to be erstwhile husband, I …
UBT the Trust Bank
CN, why haven’t we deconstructed the bullshit trope of the Trust Bank yet? OMG, I’ve let you down! Recently, I got a letter that went …
