Cheater Tactics

The common manipulation tactics cheaters use to maintain their position of advantage over chumps.

Rejected Him and Now He’s Badmouthing Me
October 13, 2025October 15, 2025
The ‘Dual Accountability’ Therapy Fallacy
October 10, 2025October 10, 2025
If I Don’t Pretend to Be Friends with Ex He Gets Ugly
September 30, 2025September 30, 2025
Do You Think My Married Boyfriend Loves Me?
September 19, 2025September 19, 2025
After My Husband Died I Discovered His Double Life
September 10, 2025September 10, 2025
The Other Woman Means Nothing to Him
August 24, 2025August 24, 2025
I Love You But I’m Not In Love with You
July 30, 2025July 30, 2025
Cheating Wife Thinks They Should Divorce and Then Date
July 24, 2025July 24, 2025
Living with Your Ex For The Children?
July 15, 2025July 15, 2025
He Wouldn’t Have Cheated If I’d Been a Better Spouse?
June 25, 2025June 25, 2025
Cheater Thinks He’s a Feminist Ally
June 24, 2025June 24, 2025
What Can I Do About Her Smear Campaign?
June 8, 2025June 8, 2025
How Can I Get My Truth Out There?
May 21, 2025May 21, 2025
He ‘Can’t Decide’ Between Us
May 15, 2025May 15, 2025
I’m Afraid He’ll Turn the Kids Against Me
May 4, 2025May 4, 2025
Did Your Cheater Regift Things?
May 2, 2025May 2, 2025
Dr. Orion Taraban: ‘Ladies’ Thank Your Men for Not Cheating
April 30, 2025May 1, 2025
Don’t Judge Me
April 25, 2025May 11, 2025
Tired of Being Cheater’s Conspirator Friend
April 21, 2025April 21, 2025
Should I Trust Him Again?
April 7, 2025April 7, 2025
The Weirdest Thing They Asked for in the Divorce
April 4, 2025April 4, 2025
Why Didn’t You Fight for Me?
April 3, 2025April 3, 2025
Is It Wrong to Have Feelings for My Friend’s Wife?
March 27, 2025March 27, 2025
I Let My Ex Bully Me
March 19, 2025March 19, 2025
He Cheated, Left, and Wants to Take ‘Family’ Photos
March 8, 2025March 9, 2025
The ‘Anyone Could Cheat’ Defense
March 6, 2025March 7, 2025
UBT: Why Some Women Cheat to Stay
March 5, 2025March 5, 2025
Am I Overreacting to Emotional Cheating?
March 3, 2025March 3, 2025
How Can We Challenge Blameshifting Therapists?
March 2, 2025March 2, 2025
When You’re Married and ‘Fall in Love’ with Someone Else
February 25, 2025February 25, 2025
Why Do Abusers Isolate You?
February 14, 2025February 14, 2025
The Other Woman Must Be Really Great
February 12, 2025February 12, 2025
He Cheated for ‘Validation’?
February 3, 2025February 3, 2025
How to Respond When Someone Minimizes Cheating?
January 24, 2025January 24, 2025
How Can I Trust My Cheating Husband Again?
January 20, 2025January 20, 2025
He’s Mad I Went Through His Email to See If He Was Cheating
January 14, 2025January 14, 2025
Tired of Being the Villain
December 26, 2024December 26, 2024
He Thinks He’s Done Nothing Wrong Cheating
December 15, 2024December 15, 2024
He Posted His ‘Rules of Cheating’
November 24, 2024November 25, 2024
Why Is She Sorry NOW?
November 21, 2024November 21, 2024
‘He Returned and Acts Like Nothing Happened’
November 13, 2024November 13, 2024
How Do I Handle the Other Woman?
November 5, 2024November 5, 2024