Category: Cheater Tactics

When Splendid People Cheat

So, yesterday I got to tangling with remorseful cheaters on an infidelity board (Talk About Marriage). Someone posted my article skewering that Victoria Milan survey …

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When You’re the Parent in the Relationship

One common thread I see running through a lot of stories here is that the chump is takes a parental role in the relationship. Gah! …

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Cheap Shit Cheaters Do

This post was suggested a few days ago and I thought it a good topic, as you see this dynamic all the time — the …

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Dear Chump Lady, Now that I’m done, he’s “ill”

Dear Chump Lady, I am a chump. My husband has cheated several times and I have let him have the cake. No boundaries. I don’t …

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Dear Chump Lady, He wants to be FRIENDS?

Dear Chump Lady, I wish I had found this website a year ago. I would’ve of saved myself a lot of heartache. Reading the stories …

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Infidelity *Is* Abuse

And a big hairy pox on those who think otherwise. Yes, the unicorns are at it again. Leading the sparkly unicorn brigade on HuffPo today …

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One Hell of a Work Ethic

“Gotta work late” is the oldest cheater excuse in the book. The lamest. The most worn. And a line nearly every chump falls for. Because, …

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A Public Service Announcement to Remorseless Cheaters

Dear Cheaters, Apparently there is still some confusion out there that your extracurricular shenanigans are wrong. In the interest of members of the unsuspecting public …

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Cheater Word Salad

Chump Lady used to be a think tank editor in her younger days. Think tanks are those marble buildings on K St. in Washington, D.C. …

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Gaslighting — The Fine Art of Making You Believe You’re Crazy

The late comedian Richard Pryor had a joke that went… His wife walks in on him having sex with another woman. Pryor tells his freaked …

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The Unified Theory of Cake

Cake eating is the preferred Nirvanic state of the unrepentant cheater. It’s the situation in which the cheater has the affair partner (AP) and the …

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