Category: Sociopathy
Parasitic Boyfriend Won’t Leave
Over the weekend I had an exchange with “Cyn” — a woman being threatened by her parasitic, live-in boyfriend. As we corresponded, more details about …
Is Every Cheater Mentally Ill?
Dear Chump Lady, I have a question: my soon-to-be-ex is a megalomaniac, socio-psycho-pathic compulsive liar. He lacks empathy and borders on sadism. No, no border. …
UBT: I Am The Other Woman
Dear Chump Lady, I am the Other Woman. After almost 6 years together, and his wife finding out about our affair multiple times, I no …
Strategies to Protect Against Mentally Unstable OW?
Dear Chump Lady, I recently found out that my husband of almost 21 years has been having an ongoing relationship with a woman for 11 …
Her Cheating Husband Spies on Her
Dear Chump Lady, I’m not sure how this message will be received as I’ve not had an “official” D-Day. But I’m writing to you because …
Hulu’s Candy: Twu Wuv and Axe Murder
Here’s a nightmare: Your best friend is screwing your husband. And then she kills you with an axe. Not only does she get away with …
UBT: ‘They are all deep connections with different colors’
Hi Chump Lady, I read your book right after D-Day, lying on the floor, to stop myself from feeling like I’m falling. At the time, …
Shark Eyes and Dead Stares
In a recent post, a thread broke out on the shark eyes FWs give you when you confront them with their lies. What is that …
COVID Roommate Becomes Other Woman
Dear Chump Lady, It’s been 6 months and I’m ready to tell my story. In March of 2020, right when my city got locked-down for …
UBT: “My Handling of Your Situation Is Beyond Fault”
Dear Chump Lady, A family member is divorcing her serial cheater and is attempting no contact. Below is a recent email from her not-soon-enough-to-be-ex that …
The Other Woman Was a ‘Best Friend’
Dear Chump Lady My children’s father and I broke up 18 months ago after after an 11-year relationship, 2 kids, a house, and a business. …
3 Chumped Women Expose Army Lt. Col. with Double Life
Several alert chumps sent me the story this weekend of serial-cheater Army Lieutinent Colonel Richard Kane Mansir and his double life. Three chumped women — his …
It Took Balls to Cheat on Him?
Dear Chump Lady, Been married 15+ years, to the sweetest person ever. One reason I was attracted to her was because I knew there would …
Allen vs. Farrow
Many chumps have reached out to ask me if I’ve watched the HBO documentary “Allen vs. Farrow,” about Dylan Farrow’s (alleged, convincing… utterly convincing) sex …
Jason Collier, Serial Douche
Many alert chumps sent me the story of the Stinnett, Texas police chief Jason Collier, who was arrested this week for allegedly faking an annulment …
Cheating Husband “Is a Predator”
Dear Chump Lady, I found your site 4 months ago, my husband’s been having affairs for 7 years (that I know of). I was irate …
The Family Next Door
I’ve gotten a few notes asking me if I’d seen the new Netflix documentary American Murder: The Family Next Door about the murder of Shan’ann …
Close Encounters of the Fake Tears Kind
I don’t know about you, but one of the most shocking discoveries I had being chumped was that my ex could cry on demand. I …
‘How Could He Walk Away from His Wife and Kids?’
Dear Chump Lady, We married 6 years ago and had 2 kids. I found out about his STBX’s porn addiction shortly after we were married …
Can I Leave a Suicidal Cheater?
Hi Chump Lady, My situation is one you’ve read a thousand times or more, but luckily I’m unmarried without kids. I’ve been dating my boyfriend …
