Category: Sociopathy

Universal Bullshit Translator

He’d Like to Apologize for ‘His Role’ in Breaking Her Arm

Dear Chump Lady, I received this letter from my ex after he physically assaulted me and fractured my elbow and then broke 3 necklaces from …

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broken heart

My Parents Married Me Off to a Sex Addict

Dear Chump Lady, I have recently come across your work. As you may have already gathered, I’m here because I may be a chump too. …

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Elizabeth Holmes’ Latest Sucker

Sometimes I think we live in a Golden Age of sociopaths. Or maybe, for those who haven’t been chumped (or murdered) by one, they make …

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Alex Murdaugh, King of the Double Life

Judging by my mail, a bunch of chumps are triggered by Alex Murdaugh, sociopath extraordinaire. To anyone not following this family nut cluster: Alex Murdaugh …

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Parasitic Boyfriend Won’t Leave

Over the weekend I had an exchange with “Cyn” — a woman being threatened by her parasitic, live-in boyfriend. As we corresponded, more details about …

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Is Every Cheater Mentally Ill?

Dear Chump Lady, I have a question: my soon-to-be-ex is a megalomaniac, socio-psycho-pathic compulsive liar. He lacks empathy and borders on sadism. No, no border. …

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Universal Bullshit Translator

UBT: I Am The Other Woman

Dear Chump Lady, I am the Other Woman. After almost 6 years together, and his wife finding out about our affair multiple times, I no …

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Strategies to Protect Against Mentally Unstable OW?

Dear Chump Lady, I recently found out that my husband of almost 21 years has been having an ongoing relationship with a woman for 11 …

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mindfuck

Her Cheating Husband Spies on Her

Dear Chump Lady, I’m not sure how this message will be received as I’ve not had an “official” D-Day. But I’m writing to you because …

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Candy

Hulu’s Candy: Twu Wuv and Axe Murder

Here’s a nightmare: Your best friend is screwing your husband. And then she kills you with an axe. Not only does she get away with …

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Mindfuck blender

UBT: ‘They are all deep connections with different colors’

Hi Chump Lady, I read your book right after D-Day, lying on the floor, to stop myself from feeling like I’m falling. At the time, …

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Shark Eyes and Dead Stares

In a recent post, a thread broke out on the shark eyes FWs give you when you confront them with their lies. What is that …

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broken heart

COVID Roommate Becomes Other Woman

Dear Chump Lady, It’s been 6 months and I’m ready to tell my story. In March of 2020, right when my city got locked-down for …

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UBT: “My Handling of Your Situation Is Beyond Fault”

Dear Chump Lady, A family member is divorcing her serial cheater and is attempting no contact. Below is a recent email from her not-soon-enough-to-be-ex that …

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broken heart

The Other Woman Was a ‘Best Friend’

Dear Chump Lady My children’s father and I broke up 18 months ago after after an 11-year relationship, 2 kids, a house, and a business. …

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Kane Mansir

3 Chumped Women Expose Army Lt. Col. with Double Life

Several alert chumps sent me the story this weekend of serial-cheater Army Lieutinent Colonel Richard Kane Mansir and his double life. Three chumped women  — his …

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cheat on me

It Took Balls to Cheat on Him?

Dear Chump Lady, Been married 15+ years, to the sweetest person ever. One reason I was attracted to her was because I knew there would …

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Allen vs Farrow

Allen vs. Farrow

Many chumps have reached out to ask me if I’ve watched the HBO documentary “Allen vs. Farrow,” about Dylan Farrow’s (alleged, convincing… utterly convincing) sex …

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Jason collier

Jason Collier, Serial Douche

Many alert chumps sent me the story of the Stinnett, Texas police chief Jason Collier, who was arrested this week for allegedly faking an annulment …

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mask

Cheating Husband “Is a Predator”

Dear Chump Lady, I found your site 4 months ago, my husband’s been having affairs for 7 years (that I know of). I was irate …

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