Today’s Post


The New I Do WTFever Makes Me Happy

Several alert chumps last week sent me the article on Huffington Post about “The New I Do: Reshaping Marriage for Skeptics, Realists, and Rebels” by therapist Susan Pease Gadoua and journalist Vicki Larson. I guess the Huffington Post must be a skeptic about these new marriages because they put the article on their Divorce page. Shockingly, by contrast, the HuffPo Wedding […]


Dear Chump Lady, The cheaters live next door…

Dear Chump Lady, How do I get over it when my soon-to-be-ex-husband (STBX) moved in with the Other Woman (OW) who lives next door to my work!!??? I’m a small business owner and my studio is literally next door. I try to not think about it, but there are days he drives by and then he pulls into […]

Dear Chump Lady, My daughter wants to show me pictures of the OW

Dear Chump Lady, Please help! I do not know how to navigate this entire divorce mess with my two teenage daughters. My youngest sees her father every other weekend. This includes time spent with the OW. This weekend they took a day trip and she took many pictures on her phone from the day. She […]

Chump Lady Video!

So here it is! Stupid Shit Cheaters Say come to life! I’m sorry I couldn’t immortalize all 1,000+ submissions of crazy, but please accept a cow mooing “I am not defined by my relationships.” Some of you saw a sneak peak on Facebook. I didn’t want to put it up here last Friday when the […]