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Cheater Tactics

The common manipulation tactics cheaters use to maintain their position of advantage over chumps.

The Cheater Was Going to Stop… Really
January 11, 2017January 27, 2024
Compartmentalized Cheaters and Their Affairs
December 20, 2016January 24, 2024
Dear Chump Lady, Husband said OW’s name during sex
November 22, 2016
UBT: Don’t Define Me
November 15, 2016January 21, 2024
Just Got HPV, but I’ve Been Monogamous for 30 Years
November 10, 2016March 2, 2024
UBT: It Has Nothing To Do With You
November 2, 2016January 17, 2024
Yeah, That’s Not An Apology
October 10, 2016February 7, 2024
Everyone Cheats?
October 3, 2016October 3, 2016
But I Always Come Back to You
July 4, 2016January 14, 2024
UBT: “I will return with a fuller love for you”
June 13, 2016December 26, 2023
Dear Chump Lady, When I threaten to leave, he says he’ll change
June 6, 2016
UBT: “You have to set me free within the marriage.”
May 26, 2016May 26, 2016
Dear Chump Lady, My insecurity made him cheat?
May 5, 2016
If You Think I’m THAT Sort of Person…
April 26, 2016April 26, 2016
50 Shades of Subtle Nuance
April 5, 2016
UBT: “Cheating is a symptom, not the disease”
March 22, 2016March 22, 2016
Dear Chump Lady, My friend doesn’t listen to your advice
March 16, 2016March 16, 2016
‘Our Marriage Was Already Over’ The Classic Cheater Excuse
March 3, 2016February 9, 2024
Dear Chump Lady, He wants the OW so he can “live a little”
March 2, 2016
50 Shades of Moral Ambiguity
February 25, 2016February 25, 2016
Is The Cheating My Fault?
February 23, 2016November 3, 2024
Dear Chump Lady, Do we have to do things “as a family”?
February 12, 2016February 12, 2016
Dear Chump Lady, My husband doesn’t want to unfriend the OW
February 8, 2016February 8, 2016
Co-parenting Cake
February 3, 2016
A Public Service Announcement for Remorseless Cheaters
January 21, 2016
Family Therapy with Your Abuser — WTF?
December 31, 2015
We Could Be Friends!
December 23, 2015December 23, 2015
UBT: 7 Reasons Why Cheating Was Your Fault
November 30, 2015March 24, 2024
The Myth of the 50-50 Marriage
November 18, 2015January 6, 2024
Dear Chump Lady, Did he cheat because I confided my fears?
November 16, 2015
The Cheater Work Ethic
November 12, 2015November 12, 2015
Dear Chump Lady, “We never had sex anymore…”
November 11, 2015
Dear Chump Lady, I have a back-stabbing mother-in-law
November 4, 2015
Dear Josh, You’re a Chump
September 21, 2015
UBT: Cheaters didn’t know “what else” to do!
September 17, 2015February 18, 2024
UBT: You Don’t Love Me the Way I Need to Be Loved
September 14, 2015September 21, 2024
When Escape Is Your Best Option
August 12, 2015
Did Stress Cause Him to Cheat?
March 30, 2015February 24, 2024
Dear Chump Lady, My teenagers blame me
March 10, 2015March 10, 2015
UBT: I Wish You Were Still Nice
February 18, 2015March 20, 2024
Cheating Ex-Girlfriend Sends Goodbye Letter
January 15, 2015August 1, 2024
Dear Chump Lady, Where do you find the strength?
January 2, 2015January 3, 2015